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Author:  BadHabit [ Fri Jul 17, 2015 9:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Closing on good girl
Ok so met this girl hb8. She approached me the first time and said hi, telling me that we had met before at parties. I honestly couldn't remember. Number closed and have been talking for 2 months. I've been busy with work and she been on vacation & traveling so schedules for dates haven't aligned. Finally this passed week my be & his gf had a get together, fajitas & ritas. I invited her. She was excited and came right over. I was surprised because I figured she was going to be busy. So much texting and a few phone conversations in these 2 months were good but had me a little weary because cause things can get akward in person. For the most part I didn't think it was at all. Went to the grocery store picked up some extra things. At the house I was back & forth talking with her then my guy friends letting catch up with my bf's gf. (They had known each other) I noticed I wasn't giving her enough attention so towards the end of the night I focused just on her. Sat next to her had great conversation. Kino when we would go inside to fill up. Time fly by then and she looked at the clock we were both surprised that it was already almost 2AM. Walking to her car we were talking I grabbed her hand gave her a spin then pulled her to me and kissed her. She hugged me tight. I gave her another quick kiss and that was the end of the night. She texted me when she got home. Next day she was a little slow to text. & I invited her to go bowl with virtually the same group as night before. She replied "maybe what time" I said "around 7" & then no reply. Waited 2 days for some kind of text and got nothing. So today (day 3) I sent this on my way to work. "I've been busy the last few days but I haven't forgot about you going MIA on me the other night. lol" I know now obviously I have to wait on a text again but any ideas? I thought I nailed this.
Author:  DW-Heart-Charmer [ Mon Jul 20, 2015 1:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Closing on good girl
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Ok so met this girl hb8. She approached me the first time and said hi, telling me that we had met before at parties. She was excited and came right over. I was surprised because I figured she was going to be busy. So much texting and a few phone conversations in these 2 months were good but had me a little weary because cause things can get akward in person.
She's into you, should be less than two months to meet up!
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Time fly by then and she looked at the clock we were both surprised that it was already almost 2AM. Walking to her car we were talking I grabbed her hand gave her a spin then pulled her to me and kissed her. She hugged me tight. I gave her another quick kiss and that was the end of the night. She texted me when she got home.
Go for the close here. No kiss bullshit, tell her to come over or go over to her house.
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Next day she was a little slow to text. & I invited her to go bowl with virtually the same group as night before. She replied "maybe what time" I said "around 7" & then no reply.
If you had closed the night before you wouldn't have to text this. Now you look really needy inviting her out the very next day. Don't you have another girl you could bring to this?
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Waited 2 days for some kind of text and got nothing.
No surprise. You are chasing before and she knows.
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So today (day 3) I sent this on my way to work. "I've been busy the last few days but I haven't forgot about you going MIA on me the other night. lol" I know now obviously I have to wait on a text again but any ideas? I thought I nailed this.
Don't text shit like this. It comes off needy as fuck.

Instead> "Just thought of you cupcake, wish you were here so you could give me a back massage."

What is your game plan here? Invite her out with your social circle everytime? That is only going to lead where it led the first time-you walking her to her car and you leaving alone. The only way this makes any sense is if your friends think you are a total badass and build you up. Then you leave with the girl.
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