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I am someone who does a lot of approaching. I get turned down a lot
This do not mean you get turned down for real, this is just feedback that you have something you can improve on. If you get 100% rejections, then your getting rejected...Quote:
by trying new things but I do get the odd number from a hot girl.
Numbers are like facebook friends requests, as easy to get as to turn down. They don't mean a thing and if they guy thinks he can meet her without spending time to know the girl or pass all the shit test, he is not worth seeing at all. Then why waste time on this guy, when there is a shit load more wating in line, there could be a better match or passed her shit test...Quote:
My issue is trying to get them on a date.
You did not build enough value before getting the number or after texting with her...Quote:
I prefer to get to know someone in person
That's just a request to a stranger, who you dont have any relation to or who owe you anything... Quote:
but woman seem to want to talk for a week or 2 via sms than face to face.
Woman just want to feel safe, before they meet a complete stranger, who could be dangerous and therefore take there emotional precaution Quote:
As soon as I suggest meeting up they seem to get freaked out??
You haven't build enough, value before you ask and therefore you get buyers remorse Quote:
Otherwise they seem keen enough to begin with and agree to a day to meet but it never materialises.
This just mean, that you cane attract, just not close 100% jet.Quote:
I also try not to answer back and leave them waiting a while but this just leads to the connection drifting apart and I dont see the point in playing these silly cat and mouse games.
How do you easiest explain emotion to a stranger, you play a game (Whatever the game is) Quote:
What are your thoughts guys and what do you find works
Work on technical side of the game, project your anger towards learing and using the feedback. And you will be in top form in no time 