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Author:  TomynhoSK [ Sat Jul 11, 2015 10:35 am ]
Post subject:  She is hitting on me. What now?

Hey guys,
Yesterday, I met a girl I used to go to high school with, at a bar. She approached me (by throwing something small at me, in a playful way) and she instantly recognized me; I didn't even know her name, but she knew mine (I was pretty popular). I teased her for a bit and then I went back to my friends. She was back very soon and she even offered to buy me a drink.
To make the long story short; There were 5 of us; 2 girls (including her) and 3 guys. This girl (HB 8) was kinoing me all the time (playfully hitting me, high-fiving, hugging, etc). She would laugh at everything I said (submissive laughing, but then again, everyone was doing that), I was getting IOIs from my friend's girlfriend, as well and when that friend called himself "the boss", both of the girls pointed at me and they were like "No, he's the boss here". So I assume I was the "alpha male of the group".

I could just feel the energy and I was able to get away with a lot of teasing and sexualization (I was making sexual jokes every now and then and she was laughing at every single one).

Anyway, an hour or so later, I drove her home and she was like "Hand me your phone for a second" and she put her number in it, we kissed and then she left. Then we texted for a bit when I got home, I told her I "think she's sexy, but beauty is common..." etc. I basically got her to qualify herself. Now she wants to "find out more". She also keeps complimenting me.

I'm basically wondering which stage I'm in. I was thinking A2 or A3.

To sum it up:
- HB8 recognized me because I was popular in HS
- I was the perceived AMOG
- She was kinoing me + giving me other IOIs
- We got physical early (hugging, kissing, etc.)
- I number-closed at the end of the night
- She keeps complimenting me (looks-wise and personality-wise)

Author:  odyn [ Sat Jul 11, 2015 2:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

Honestly who cares what particular stage your in. Make hay when the sun is shining. Meet up with her again, after your story I would ask her to a movie over at my place (why waste time or money) and do your thing. Seems like she is the one doing the pursuing so this should be a fucking lay up, just don't over think it or try to "game" her....when there really isn't a need to.

Author:  Noone [ Sat Jul 11, 2015 2:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

This post is akin to:

This girl is trying to pull my dick out and fuck me. What do? Should I neg her?

She's doing all the work. You literally just have to set up the date and show up. Escalate.

Author:  JackZero [ Sat Jul 11, 2015 3:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

Dropped her off? Why didn't you go in or invite her back to your place? Even if it didn't lead to sex, it gets you passed a barrier of her being comfortable in your or her place.

Author:  TomynhoSK [ Mon Jul 13, 2015 1:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

Quote:
Dropped her off? Why didn't you go in or invite her back to your place? Even if it didn't lead to sex, it gets you passed a barrier of her being comfortable in your or her place.
She was at my place, but I couldn't just isolate her, because there were my friends around. She also seems quite innocent, but she's quite responsive to sexual comments, etc.

Author:  R.C [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 8:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

Besides all the techieness with attraction phases and other pua lingo, what the hell is your actual question?

She's a woman who's OBVIOUSLY interested in you. I don't even know why this thread exists. Take her out on a date since for whatever reason you didn't invite her over when you should've in the first place.

Author:  Jasoule [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 2:00 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

I don't see any major issue with what you are doing. You showed intent, you escalated, and you number closed. The only thing that seems to be the problem is that you are letting the woman do everything. You are leading things forward, she is. She is playing the role of the leader and the aggressor. Keep framing her as the aggressor but be a leader. Set up a day 2. Hang out, have fun, and hook up. I recommend do this in the late evening so that things could lead back to your place or hers for sex. I don't know what your logistics or but you may have to work with what you have. Anyways you are in between the meeting stage and dating stage. In the MM this would be phone game. The phone is your tool to set dates (day 2s or whatever). Don't try to get to know her over the phone or get her to qualify too much. Move things forward. Ask yourself this. Do you want to be inside of her or on the phone with her. Pick one and move towards that.

Author:  Dragula [ Fri Aug 07, 2015 3:04 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She is hitting on me. What now?

Nah guys, she is a time waster

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