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| Author: | tigercommander [ Sun Jun 07, 2015 11:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Pulling right at closing time |
I have some block about approaching and trying to pull girls right at 1:30am (Im in a city that shuts down early) when everyone is outside after the bar closes. I think they know I'm trying to sleep with them and I feel kind of creepy, like I'm the creeper at the end of the night trying to prey on the last drunk girls. How do other people feel about this? I would like to push through this and just pull or even get a kiss and number close at 1:30 and bounce for food, etc. and then a day2 if needed. |
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| Author: | Crystalyst [ Mon Jun 08, 2015 11:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pulling right at closing time |
If you feel creepy, they will feel your creepiness. Girls are freaks like that. If you feel like someone who wants to keep partying and you are having so much fun you don't want the night to end, so you just go and talk to a bunch of people after you all get kicked out of the bar, you will project a much better "vibe" and girls will pick up on it although us dudes never seem to be able to. It never hurts to have something lined up after such as an after party. Not sure how possible it is for you, but I always try to have 2 friends come over after the bars and then tell girls we have a great spot to grab a drink. I've had girls do the "Let me guess, your house", to which I simply respond "Of course, you guys should totally come" with a confident smile while locking eyes. If you seem nervous or creepy with it, they will pick right up on it. Don't let them fluster you. Don't come out and say "come back to my place", but if they call you out on it, don't deny it. Full disclosure - I live in NYC, so it's a lot easier for me I am sure, although I don't know how different it is elsewhere. |
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| Author: | DW-Heart-Charmer [ Mon Jul 20, 2015 2:19 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Pulling right at closing time |
Quote: If you feel creepy, they will feel your creepiness. Girls are freaks like that.
This! If you feel like someone who wants to keep partying and you are having so much fun you don't want the night to end, so you just go and talk to a bunch of people after you all get kicked out of the bar, you will project a much better "vibe" and girls will pick up on it although us dudes never seem to be able to. The solution is to do it anyway. Everyone knows why you are out downtown and why you are talking to a girl at 1:30 am anyway. Just do it and own it. Tough I know, but it works. |
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