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Author:  tkdm [ Sat May 09, 2015 1:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Escalation
I was wondering how should a guy handle a girl who refuses kino escalation on the first date, but gives him iois (eye contact, smiling, asking questions...). I understand it might be all to soon for her, but if I don't kino escalate I might end up in the friend zone.

And I'm not talking about big kino steps. Just some usual touching hands as part of some routine or thumb wrestling.

That's maybe her way of controlling the frame or a bitch test. It's hard to escalate if there is a "wall" between us.

I would appreciate some practical examples.
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat May 09, 2015 4:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
Some girls have thicker shields than other.

You can't be all " I HAVE TO TOCUH HER OMG!"

If you just relax, she'll always present you with the perfect opportunity. The key is to just keep being you and to keep going for it.

You won't end up in the friend zone so long as you're making attempts. Its like LMR but with kino. And if I were you I'd be a little glad she isn't so quick to make contact. That lets you know what someone else might have to go through once you lock her down.
Author:  tkdm [ Sat May 09, 2015 6:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
Man, I know one thing: opportunities don't just present themselves - you have to create them.

The thing that bothers me is that I had a date recently with a great girl, she was interested and then I somehow messed up. Probably not enough kino or maybe DHVs...
Author:  Eddie Fews [ Sat May 09, 2015 6:46 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
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Man, I know one thing: opportunities don't just present themselves - you have to create them.

The thing that bothers me is that I had a date recently with a great girl, she was interested and then I somehow messed up. Probably not enough kino or maybe DHVs...
Opportunities do present themselves. And you can also create them.

You get friend zoned based off the vibe you project, not the actions you take. If your frame and vibe is creating attraction it doesn't matter what you do. Now if you allow the fact that you didn't touch her bring down your emotional state she will reflect that back to you in the form of friend zoning you because you aren't capable of leading her.

I had a girl that wouldn't let me kiss her to the 6th or 7th time I saw her. We slept in the same bed and all, still wouldn't. But i knew I was in. I assumed attraction.

All the DHV shit is nerds if you wanna know my opinion. You don't have to demonstrate what you already have. I'm not a performer.
Author:  Dragula [ Sat May 09, 2015 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
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she was interested and then I somehow messed up. Probably not enough kino or maybe DHVs...
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Author:  tkdm [ Sat May 09, 2015 7:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
What's the deal with you, PEBBLE?

If you don't have anything smart to say that's ok. But don't bother trolling.
Author:  Winchester [ Mon May 18, 2015 2:27 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
Simple, be relaxed and use strong eye contact. You should start to lean in close to her ear when telling her something and slow down your speech. There's other ways to escalate than just touch. Most of what turns a girl on is 90% mental, confidence, flirting, cheeky. Still keep trying to approach but maybe start slower with touching her shoulder while you lean in etc...if you keep the SPAM sexy, and the alcohol starts to kick in, it shouldn't be a huge deal.
Author:  Basic fucking idiot [ Mon May 18, 2015 3:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Escalation
Ok I get waay to close to her at times , at times it doesn't work . She pokes me a loot to get my attention but hates when i poke her ... Any suggestions ?
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