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Author:  Zooey Glass [ Sat Apr 11, 2015 4:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Evil or not?

Hi guys, I'm new to this forum and I have this specific situation that's kinda killing me. Hope anyone can help.

I met this cute girl (actually she's gorgeous a 10 for sure) 3 weeks ago by coincidence, she's the roomie of an old friend who just came back to town. That night we all went to a concert and we started talking about deep shit, psychoanalysis, existencialism and stuff, my type of conversation, but it wasn't pretentious at all, it was interesting. Then we went to another place and I bumped into some old crush who never paid me attention, this girl noticed the awkwardness and seemed ver interested in the situation but I didnt said much. After a while we forgot about that old crush and started to dance and then she kissed me. I told her "I knew it was going to happen since the moment I first saw you" and she replied "I knew it was going to hapen since the moment I listen to you" wich was far better than my line. We had a really awesome night, making out and dancing, later we went to her house and she said "you can stay if you want, theres plenty of room in my bed" so I stayed but she was feeling kinda ill by all the alcohol. We hug and slept just that, it was special, those cinematographic moments. Next day I woke up early and left without saying goodbye, I don't know why, I guess I was trying to make a dumb statement, cause I felt really vulnerable.

I couldnt stop thinking about her so I texted her the next night (she gave me her number before). I said that I really liked her a lot and that I wanted to know each other better, she was ok with that and I asked her if the night before when we hooked up, it was just like an alcohol based thing but she said no, maybe her intensity was but not the whole thing, I just happened to have a good conversation, so she felt attracted (quoting her), so I started having this ideas that this might work for a real deal.

We saw a couple of days later, went to the movies. That night was weird, she was a little distant and then aggressive (I'm a musician so she started judging that this is not a hard job at all) so we kinda have an argument about it. Later we droped the topic, relaxed and very casual, she commented something about, not saying goodbye that day when I left, so I figured out she was a little angry about it. I told her that i had lot of work and I didnt wanted to woke her early...she said "what about a note?" I felt like a douche.

Nothing happened that night and I left with this weird feeling. Later in the week I texted her but she was away in a job trip, then busy with more work, then busy, then busy and I kinda though she was just putting some distance so I wrote: "Ok, I get it, I'm really busy is the ultimate euphemism for please don't call me again, so I wont do it anymore, I just happen to like you so much, anyway see ya" and deleted her number, but she texted me the next morning this: "hey, no, everything is cool, come to my place" but I had to work so I reply that I'll come after work. I texted her that night and she told me that was really tired. Yesterday I invited her to a party but she just replied "I'm out dancing".

I dont know what to expect and I think I'm developing some sort of feelings and I think we both are being just lame but I don't want to sound desperate.

Any advice?

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