What up guys!
Here’s the deal: I’m still a virgin at 22. The thing has been bugging me for like forever. I have probably been dodging opportunities left and right because “she wasn’t the right girl”.
Well, a few days ago I read a post from a guy who was in the same position as me, and he wanted to lose his virginity to an escort. That idea always sounded awful to me. But it was his post that finally made me realize that I can’t wait for the perfect situation.
So now I’ve come to choose a girl I feel is the most appropriate. We’ve once drunkenly hooked up, even got to bed together, but somehow I didn’t feel like having sex with her right there – for not being “the perfect situation”, fucking stupid I know…
Now, we are still friends, and she’s been hitting on me all the time, inviting me to have dinner with her and shit like that. So far I’ve dismissed her. But now I realize that although she’s not really my kind of girl, she is still fun as hell and I kinda enjoy being around her.
So a couple of days ago, I invited her over to see a movie with some friends. She said yes like a millisecond later. But then, at night she sends me this message:
“Hey! I can’t go because I came to see my parents and ended up staying at their place. Sorry. I’ll be waiting for the next invitation
”What I got from that was that she was telling the truth (foster parents and that kind of stuff) and that she still wants to be with me.
So what kind of advice am I looking for? Well, for starters, what the hell should I do
Ok, so I’m obviously looking to take her to bed, this time for real. She’s my neighbor, so I can either try to get to her house (bigger bed) or invite her to mine (smaller bed, but movies projector!). Not sure if we should get drunk either. What plan would you follow?
Also, some advice for a sex newbie: what position is best for a first timer, besides missionary? She’s 2 year older than me and probably a lot more experienced than me in this matter…
Cheers!