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Author:  TomynhoSK [ Fri Feb 27, 2015 1:19 pm ]
Post subject:  When is it okay to be "nice"?

Hey guys,
I hope this is the right section, but I thought I'd ask, anyway - when's the right time to be "nice" to the girls you're seeing? I don't mean being the typical nice guy.

What I'm talking about is, what do you do when the girl(s) you're sleeping with is in a bad mood because of something that happened to her (nothing in particular).

Should I call them? Should I comfort them? Keep in mind I'm talking only about girls I'm already sleeping with (and have attraction with), so there's no friendzoning going on.

This has happened to me a few times with different girls, but I never know how to react.

Author:  JSmooth [ Fri Feb 27, 2015 1:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When is it okay to be "nice"?

Yes it is okay to be human, show you care some, and to provide them with some "there, there it'll be ok, sorry you had a bad day" comfort.

Author:  breedlove465 [ Fri Feb 27, 2015 1:45 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: When is it okay to be "nice"?

If I'm not dating them I generally try the approach of "get her mind off the topic". Unless it's something huge then you can console her of course. I wouldn't suggest trying to change the subject if your in bed fucking and she gets a text saying a relative has died (true story).

But if it's just her bitching about her friends I change the subject. Bring up something fun you wanna go do, or a new restaurant opening, or anything.

Author:  FeaganMox [ Fri Mar 06, 2015 6:45 am ]
Post subject:  Re: When is it okay to be "nice"?

Quote:
I wouldn't suggest trying to change the subject if your in bed fucking and she gets a text saying a relative has died (true story).
She was looking at text while fucking?...

Any way there's nothing wrong with being nice. Just don't be too nice because usually it'll be insincere. just be real

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