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Author:  Tyler13 [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 5:29 am ]
Post subject:  HB8 confusing me... what do I do?
Noticed this girl a couple times at school, finally opened her at a meeting we were both attending. Things went well tons of IOI's, she stuck around hungout, had some laughs exchanged numbers everything went well-this was on a Wednesday. Texted a little the same day I met her, done.

Friday I text to get her to hangout Saturday, she was down, I flaked.

Tuesday I asked her to chill she couldn't, she had way too much homework. No texting until friday.

Friday I asked her to hangout, she couldn't she was doing something else but invited me to come with her and her other friend. Declined telling her I wasn't planning on hanging for too long.

Today it is Tuesday roughly two weeks after I met her. How can I ask her to hangout without being too needy now? I see her in class every other day. Should I let her get back at me?
Author:  PUA Cyclone [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 11:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HB8 confusing me... what do I do?
Say, "You're an HB8 and I'd love to get to know you."
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 1:51 pm ]
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Noticed this girl a couple times at school, finally opened her at a meeting we were both attending. Things went well tons of IOI's, she stuck around hungout, had some laughs exchanged numbers everything went well-this was on a Wednesday. Texted a little the same day I met her, done.

Friday I text to get her to hangout Saturday, she was down, I flaked.

Tuesday I asked her to chill she couldn't, she had way too much homework. No texting until friday.

Friday I asked her to hangout, she couldn't she was doing something else but invited me to come with her and her other friend. Declined telling her I wasn't planning on hanging for too long.

Today it is Tuesday roughly two weeks after I met her. How can I ask her to hangout without being too needy now? I see her in class every other day. Should I let her get back at me?

An ounce of prevention...

Don't flake on the chick, and you wouldn't have this problem ;) ---- or at least if you're going to flake, do it in a good way that reschedules WHILE you're delivering the flake.

You'll know for next time.

As for now, text or call saying you really want to get that drink and you two haven't been able to sync up... Ask what her schedule looks like... And agree on a day.
Author:  breedlove465 [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 3:49 pm ]
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Yes, don't flake.

Just text her out of the blue with a plan. "There's this awesome band playing at blank tonight, wanna tag along?" or something like that. Better yet "hey I just signed up for netflix so a movie marathon is happening tonight, you should come check it out. Bring popcorn!"
Author:  PatrickAnanda [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 3:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB8 confusing me... what do I do?
Just ask dude...

Look at your signature: dont trip. What are you doing now? Tripping.

Get a grip man. And stop seeing women as "HB 8". Stop seeing women as HB or as a number.
I'm not even making a feminist argument here, I'm talking about the toll it takes on your subconscious. As long as you are stuck in that paradigm you will never get your dream girl. Ever.

You flaked because you were busy, that's okay. Don't listen to people spouting nonsense at you, trust your gut. If it was a friend, you wouldn't mind flaking, but because she's a hot girl you have to treat her differently? The fk is this?

Chill out dude and listen to your gut. You like her, and that's fine. Stop thinking in some stupid PUA box. A good example is in the movie American Sniper (of all places), he fucking calls her until she answers, and she's rolling her eyes screening his calls - UNTIL SHE FUCKING MARRIES HIM.

I'm not telling you to be a creep and call back to back all day every day. I'm just saying take a deep breath, maybe make yourself busy for a few days, then with a fresh and clear head, call her up, shoot the shit, laugh a bit and invite her on your next adventure.

She's just a girl... You got this!

With love and respect
Mack
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Wed Feb 04, 2015 6:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HB8 confusing me... what do I do?
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You flaked because you were busy, that's okay. Don't listen to people spouting nonsense at you, trust your gut. If it was a friend, you wouldn't mind flaking, but because she's a hot girl you have to treat her differently? The fk is this?
To each his own...

We must all be wrong and spouting garbage and nonsense because we have contrasting opinions to your own about this ;)

With Love and Respect...
Charles
Author:  Tyler13 [ Thu Feb 05, 2015 3:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HB8 confusing me... what do I do?
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Yes, don't flake.

Just text her out of the blue with a plan. "There's this awesome band playing at blank tonight, wanna tag along?" or something like that. Better yet "hey I just signed up for netflix so a movie marathon is happening tonight, you should come check it out. Bring popcorn!"
Thanks guys, I appreciate everyone's input. The flake was bad since I had here then and there but fuck it. I just wanted to get your guys' opinion on a way to reopen and not seem needy or like a bitch. I'll probably just sit next to her in class and ask her to hangout after. I'll just have something to invite her too, party in my pants type event.
Author:  Tyler13 [ Fri Feb 06, 2015 5:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HB8 confusing me... what do I do?
need your input on something guys. I'm thinking of restarting this conversation with the chick tomorrow how should I do it?

Option 1: Walk into class sit next to her and start a conversation

Option 2: Sit in my usual spot and text her to come sit next to me(get some compliance momentum flowing).

Option 3: let me know?
Author:  Tyler13 [ Mon Feb 09, 2015 12:57 am ]
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