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Author:  Kennycolombia [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 3:17 pm ]
Post subject:  Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
Ok guys, ill try to make this as short as possible.

Met the girl, felt she was really interested or tought i was really cool as she insisted i get her number and stay in touch.

Hang out once and had a couple beers, the second time we met we kissed and danced all night, good stuff.
The we met again last night for dinner (after she had been very cold while texting for a couple of weeks).

I told her i wanted to date her as we had great chemistry (im pretty sure i blew it by talking about this considering we had not even kissed this time). She just mentioned i would get bored as she is not into seeing the other person often considering she has 2 jobs and is enjoying herself just focusing in career and studies. Bottomline we didnt kiss even if i kept touching her face and getting close.

She just blamed us kissing on the alcohol last time. By now im not sure if she likes me and is trying not to pay much attention to it or just really enjoys hanging out with me.

Yesterday i made massive amount of rapport i think. However either she thinks im really into her and not fitted for casual sex, or she is just not really into hooking up right now and just wants to make friends and hang out.

BTW, I know there is room for improving my kiss close as the only way i can do it so far is by getting close and touching her (as in dancing and stuff), but just iniciating the kiss by talking about it is something i suck at by now hehe.

Thanks dudes.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 4:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
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Hang out once and had a couple beers, the second time we met we kissed and danced all night, good stuff.
Should have F-closed by this point, or at least the attempt. Why didn't you?
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(after she had been very cold while texting for a couple of weeks).
Nothing better to cool off a girl then two weeks of boring overkill text messages.
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I told her i wanted to date her as we had great chemistry (im pretty sure i blew it by talking about this considering we had not even kissed this time).
Yeah you fucked up here, your the prize not her.
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Yesterday i made massive amount of rapport i think.
As she wonders if you ever shut the fuck up.
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However either she thinks im really into her and not fitted for casual sex, or she is just not really into hooking up right now and just wants to make friends and hang out.
She likely would have fucked you, but was afraid of the marriage proposal that would immediately follow.
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or she is just not really into hooking up right now and just wants to make friends and hang out.
Go for the F-close or don't go.
Author:  Kennycolombia [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
mmm i may have not been exact enough in some points, however much of what you mention is true.
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Should have F-closed by this point, or at least the attempt. Why didn't you?
after we made out she went cold, i wasnt been needy trying to kiss her again at all times or anything, i did try to escalate more, been more forward and increasing kino a lot while dancing, but she just seemed regretful, for some reason. Logistics prolly would not have helped as she had to wake up early to work.
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Nothing better to cool off a girl then two weeks of boring overkill text messages
not quite like this, i would text her from time to time, nice chat then she would go into one word responses, (i did however apply the usual, suggest a meeting every 3 texts or so) i would get bored and back off, she would usually look for me after, but same cycle.
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As she wonders if you ever shut the fuck up
I went for the kiss a couple of times before all the talking, thats when she mentioned the "dont expect much from me" thingie. I would assume my earlier fuckup telling her i wanted to date her, set the wrong mood for the rest of the night.

Girl is sexy and cool but luckily she's far from a oneitis, so bottomline i dont really care that much. But basically would you say this is a trainwreck and just keep on moving or?...
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
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Girl is sexy and cool but luckily she's far from a oneitis, so bottomline i dont really care that much. But basically would you say this is a trainwreck and just keep on moving or?...
If this statement is the truth move forward to the next woman and drop this one to an acquaintance level.

Next girl, learn how to get the girl back to your place on the first meet.
Author:  Kennycolombia [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
ok will do, any tips on the kissing? i would like to improve my "setting the sexual SPAM for kissing" without kino or the necessity to be close. As in just leading into it with a couple good lines.
Author:  JackZero [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 6:24 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
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ok will do, any tips on the kissing? i would like to improve my "setting the sexual SPAM for kissing" without kino or the necessity to be close. As in just leading into it with a couple good lines.
No
Author:  Miami_J [ Thu Jan 29, 2015 10:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
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ok will do, any tips on the kissing? i would like to improve my "setting the sexual SPAM for kissing" without kino or the necessity to be close. As in just leading into it with a couple good lines.
If you are not comfortable with kino or being close to a girl how do you think she is going to fuck you? The lead up to kissing should be and feel natural.
Author:  WillEdward [ Fri Jan 30, 2015 1:38 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Can i pull off a f-close with this one?
Always go for the kiss on the first meet and you should be escalating with her throughout the way. If you feel like you can kiss her, then go for it, don't wait for the "perfect" moment and setting. If it feels right or if she is triangular gazing you, then make your move.
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