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Author:  lolikapuxa [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 3:44 pm ]
Post subject:  k-close and number - flake?
Yesterday night I started dancing with a girl and got a k-close. She said that she really wanted to go to her apartment and that I should come. Yeah, she was down to it. And all this happened during a 5-minute interaction.

The thing is that I said no (yeah I've been thinking of how dumb I was). To me it was very fast and I wasn't expecting it to happen that easily.

To make up for that I told her that I still wanted to keep in touch with her, and got her mobile phone, and name (to add on FB, if needed).
Of course I was stupid in not going with her, and I regret that.

Today I sent her a text saying "Hi (name). I'm looking for a night of fun next friday. Are you up to the challenge?"

She hasn't answered me back (5 hours have passed).
Do you think I still have any chance? Should I add her on FB and talk with her?
Author:  noobietothegame [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 5:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
I think you need to cut your losses and forget about her. Sorry bro.

If all that happened in just 5 minutes, the girl was looking for casual sex because she was in an emotional state of horniness. THAT was your chance. Her emotional state now has changed, so she is not into hooking up anymore.

Messaging her on facebook will come off desperate and weird (because it is desperate and weird, no offense), so don't do that.

If she responds to the text you already sent, see where you can go from there. But DO NOT text again without her responding. To be honest, I really doubt she will respond, but she might.

Either way, just get back to sarging and see if you can pull anyone else out there. There are plenty of chances, so don't get caught up on this one missed opportunity. Treat it as a moment where you learned about game. The lesson you learned is: take the chance when it is offered because it will only be offered once.
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 6:05 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
You missed the boat.

She wasn't interested in dating you. She was interested in fucking you.

Period.

Move along... lots of girls out there...

And next time, you say yes.
Author:  lolikapuxa [ Sun Jan 18, 2015 6:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
Thanks guys. I learned my lesson.
Author:  lolikapuxa [ Mon Jan 19, 2015 10:22 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
I am very happy to be reopening this topic.
After 2 days, she replied:
Quote:
"Hey you! Hehe it was fun in (name of the club) :) On Friday - hmm yeah, it could be fun!
What do you have in mind?"
It looks like I still have a chance :)

Now how should I handle this? I didn't like the fact that it took her 2 days to answer.
Should I wait one day or two before replying ? I kind of want to punish her for taking too long, but don't know whether it's a good tactic or not.

I'm thinking of replying something like this
Quote:
"I already have plans for a dinner with friends on Friday. But we can meet later that night, in some bar."
Author:  Dragula [ Mon Jan 19, 2015 11:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
Go for it.

I would ask her what her week's schedule looks like and then be like ' oh, bla day works me too' bla bla
Author:  lolikapuxa [ Sun Feb 01, 2015 3:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
Update on this.
Met her two weeks later.
We danced, kissed and finally, while we where leaving the pub she said "We are not having sex."

Pretty sure it was genuine.

I added her today on facebook.
Any tip on how to f-close this one?
Author:  Jonx1000 [ Sat Feb 07, 2015 4:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
Quote:
Update on this.
Met her two weeks later.
We danced, kissed and finally, while we where leaving the pub she said "We are not having sex."

Not sure about the tone she used when she made that statement, but based off the previous interaction you stated I think that was meant to be a joke. I know at the moment you didn't realize, but you could've made a joke about it and say "You know reverse psychology doesn't work on me right?"

At this point be straightforward, but not too straightforward if you can get her to come over your house to watch some movies your in there.
Author:  Calum Tingham [ Sat Feb 07, 2015 10:00 am ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
Quote:
Quote:
Update on this.
Met her two weeks later.
We danced, kissed and finally, while we where leaving the pub she said "We are not having sex."
"You know reverse psychology doesn't work on me right?"
I actually find it better to ignore that comment. Continuing to engage in logical chit chat about whether you will or won't be having sex, humorous or not, has always just reinforced in my girls mind that she won't be having sex.

I respond with a simple. "Okay. That's cool."
And then carry on leading and escalating anyway.

If the girl genuinely doesn't want to have sex, she'll show it in her behaviour by going home. In which case you let her.

I called a girl a cab once, after she made this comment several times.
"Okay, that's cool. I'll see you another time. *rings cab for her*"

And 10 minutes later, I was ignoring the cab driver as he rung me, because she had now decided she wanted to fuck me. Keep escalating, but respect her decision to leave.

C. Tingham
Author:  divideandconquer [ Sun Feb 08, 2015 12:01 am ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
Quote:
You missed the boat.

She wasn't interested in dating you. She was interested in fucking you.

Period.

Move along... lots of girls out there...

And next time, you say yes.
You're so right!

“If you don't stand for something you will fall for anything.” -Peter Marshall

The Fox and the Grapes Story

The fox who longed for grapes, beholds with pain
The tempting clusters were too high to gain;
Grieved in his heart he forced a careless smile,
And cried ,‘They’re sharp and hardly worth my while.’

Average Frustrated Chump: An AFC is a man who unknowingly kills the sexual and romantic interests of a woman through the very deeds and behaviors he believes should arouse them. This ironic outcome is usually attributed to a complete imbalance of qualities in the AFC, such as the extreme willingness to listen, understand and comfort a woman, while also sharply contrasting this by a concentrated effort to avoid sexual innuendos or advances of any kind, avoiding differing opinions or interests that may insinuate any incompatibility and the avoidance of telling a woman she is behaving wrong and/or improperly, even in cases when it's clear that she is.
Author:  lolikapuxa [ Mon Feb 09, 2015 4:03 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: k-close and number - flake?
never replied to me since this last night. I'm not texting her again.
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