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Author:  phoenix91 [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 7:16 pm ]
Post subject:  How do I maintain attraction?
Sup people,

Need some quick advice. Little back-story about myself; I've known about pickup and seduction for quite some time now and have fairly good success. I had a great LTR which lasted 3.5 years, she broke up with me, I felt like shit for long time and I found my manhood again.

Since then its been close to 3 months since breakup and I have had great success (better then ever) with women. Now to the nitty gritty.

I met a girl a couple months back after my breakup and found her instantly attractive. We had mutual friends, so we went out one night, I was pretty drunk and played aloof and needless to say nothing happened. After some time passed I said screw it, and reached out this this HB on Facebook and got her phone number.

We made small talk here and there (my dumbass mistake ) but realized it wasn't going anywhere so I asked her out and she was excited and agreed. I led the entire time, told her when and where we going. Date was awesome, however I got a Kiss close (no makeout), and she was eager to see me again and text-ed me immediately after the date. Since then its been about a week and we've been texting on and off, and I have to say from her texts (I know not to look to into texts) shes very interested, making sexual suggestive comments and even said I could come over at one point ( I declined and was out with my guy friends at the time).

Now I may or may not have oneitis, I do think about this girl a lot, find her incredibly sexy, and get along with her fairly well and we connected. She even mentioned to a couple of my friends how much she had fun and can't wait to see me again. Now past couple days she kinda went cold, not being as responsive and what not (probably because we've been engaging in small talk, and I haven't set up a Day2)

I am hooking up and talking to other girls, so the advice of FTOW won't really work for me lol. So my question is how to pursue matters at this point. I am really asking because I want outside opinions on what to do, since I might be a little clouded and over-thinking whether shes interested, playing hard to get, or just is flirt/tease.

My gut is telling me she likes me, I am over-thinking especially since I am still getting over being dumped, but to ignore it, stop the small talk, man up, ask her on day 2, and escalate like a f****** champ.

For the sake of making this post short and to the point, I'll answer any further questions you guys have, but any advice would help.
Author:  superc1969@gmail.com [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 8:07 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain attraction?
I would in all humbleness have ditched my friends and be over this girls and kicked it with her for the night .From my experience attraction only lasts so called with these females .Once you sleep with her that takes away any awkwardness i have found .
Author:  phoenix91 [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 8:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain attraction?
^^Fantastic to hear. But I am looking for advice on what to do know at this point
Author:  TouchOfDeath [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 11:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain attraction?
You think she liked you and from what you said it seems so. She might got bored but you're still that awesome guy she had such a very good night that she had to comment about it to her friends.
I would text her for a 2nd date. Initiate a talk again, doesn't matter if it is deep or smalltalk, I prefer to keep deep talking for dates and only make funny smalltalk in fb.
While you're talking and she is having a nice time and she is rly into it and laughing, end it. Text her "I h2g now, but it was fun! What about meeting sometime these days/week/weekend? What about x day?" or "I h2g now, but it was fun! I'm actually planning doing this thing this week, wanna join me?"
You have already kissed and you know she likes you. You need to screw it rly bad in order this not to work :D

Tell us how it goes :)
Author:  phoenix91 [ Wed Dec 17, 2014 1:17 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain attraction?
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You think she liked you and from what you said it seems so. She might got bored but you're still that awesome guy she had such a very good night that she had to comment about it to her friends.
I would text her for a 2nd date. Initiate a talk again, doesn't matter if it is deep or smalltalk, I prefer to keep deep talking for dates and only make funny smalltalk in fb.
While you're talking and she is having a nice time and she is rly into it and laughing, end it. Text her "I h2g now, but it was fun! What about meeting sometime these days/week/weekend? What about x day?" or "I h2g now, but it was fun! I'm actually planning doing this thing this week, wanna join me?"
You have already kissed and you know she likes you. You need to screw it rly bad in order this not to work :D

Tell us how it goes :)
Well I asked her to come along to a party next week, and she said if shes free she'll definitely go but might be spending time with her family that night. So I told her I'd text her later to find out.
Author:  oceanx [ Fri Dec 19, 2014 7:58 am ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain attraction?
She flat out invited you over and you rejected her so she reciprocated by going colder on you. Now with another girl this may have increased her attraction towards you, with this one it appears the opposite occurred.
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I am hooking up and talking to other girls, so the advice of FTOW won't really work for me lol.
If you had been FTOW in the last week you probably wouldn't be second-guessing yourself about this girl because you'd be drowning in pussy, so GFTOW :wink:
Author:  TouchOfDeath [ Fri Dec 19, 2014 4:25 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: How do I maintain attraction?
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You think she liked you and from what you said it seems so. She might got bored but you're still that awesome guy she had such a very good night that she had to comment about it to her friends.
I would text her for a 2nd date. Initiate a talk again, doesn't matter if it is deep or smalltalk, I prefer to keep deep talking for dates and only make funny smalltalk in fb.
While you're talking and she is having a nice time and she is rly into it and laughing, end it. Text her "I h2g now, but it was fun! What about meeting sometime these days/week/weekend? What about x day?" or "I h2g now, but it was fun! I'm actually planning doing this thing this week, wanna join me?"
You have already kissed and you know she likes you. You need to screw it rly bad in order this not to work :D

Tell us how it goes :)
Well I asked her to come along to a party next week, and she said if shes free she'll definitely go but might be spending time with her family that night. So I told her I'd text her later to find out.
Asking to go at a party isn't a date in my books, it mostly counts as a social interaction among friends. Of course you can escalate, isolate and close at a party, but if being asked, women do not percieve it as a date. It needs to be clear, by the suggestion, that this will be for the two of you. Tell her you haven't seen the Christmas decorations downtown yet and you are planning to visit downtown this amazing Christmas place on Saturday and ask her if she would like to join you or you are planning to go this cool exhibition or concert.
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