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| Author: | swilliams92 [ Sun Dec 14, 2014 1:27 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Dates then cold |
Hey, so now ive been on 3 dates with this girl. first date i just kinoed and chatted, second date lots of kino holding hands etc, went to kiss and just got a peck on the lips. third date lots of kino, constant push - pull, lots of 'pecks on the lips' and one proper kiss mid date, then when i dropped her home just a peck again.. however the day after, each date.. she seems to go really distant in her texts, other days we text constanlty but after dates not so much. Any ideas on how to proceed? thanks guys |
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| Author: | KiwiPUA [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 12:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
Considering that she went on THREE dates with you, it is very likely that she has at least some interest in you. A lot of people really do not like texting and they like make each moment a face to face moment. There is nothing wrong with this. You should really be careful that you do not text her too frequently. If you text her too frequently, it is a sign of desperation and it is also a sign that you really have too much spare time. In order to proceed, just ask her out again. But up the anti a little bit from the last few dates. It is NOW the time to TELL her that you really do like her and that you would like to take thigns further with her. Just keeep in cool, be honest and if something is there, it will work out. |
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| Author: | keakle1n [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 3:05 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
I agree with Kiwi. If she went on three dates with you there's interest but you def wanna turn up the heat a bit if she agrees on a fourth date. Light her fire! |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 3:21 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
Quote: It is NOW the time to TELL her that you really do like her and that you would like to take thigns further with her.
I agree with everything in your post, but when it comes to TELLING her you like her etc. do this through your actions not your words. You have only kissed/pecked with this girl so far. Stating your intentions out loud would be a major red flag at this point in time.
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| Author: | swilliams92 [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 5:14 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
How do I up the heat? So to speak.. And do I wait for her to text me first or do I text her first. We went out Saturday night, text a bit Sunday but nowhere near what we normally do. And today there's been nothing, she's sent me a few snapchats but just general stuff, nothing starting a convo.. Any tips I would appreciate guys! Thanks in advance |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 5:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
Quote: It is NOW the time to TELL her that you really do like her and that you would like to take thigns further with her.
Don't do this unless you'd like to immediately be friend-zoned.
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| Author: | swilliams92 [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 7:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
So what should I actually do? Bit stuck and don't wanna fuck it up |
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Mon Dec 15, 2014 9:39 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
Quote: So what should I actually do? Bit stuck and don't wanna fuck it up
"Hey Such n such awesome movie is coming out this week, you should come over Thursday and check it out. Bring popcorn". Get her to your place. Escalate. Flirt. Sex. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 16, 2014 1:18 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Dates then cold |
Quote: So what should I actually do? Bit stuck and don't wanna fuck it up
Don't tell her you're interested. Show her.
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