PUA Forum :: First date success! but now I don't know where to go

So I've been texting this girl on Tinder for a while and managed to get her out on a date. We had an awesome time and we both wanted to meet up again on the end of the date. The problem is she works a commission based job 6 days of the week and often works overtime. She told me on the date that in the past she has chatted to a lot of guys and the chatting has trailed off into nothing and I'm sort of feeling that's the way our relationship is going. I really like this girl, I think we get along great, but I feel like her work is sapping all of her energy and its hard to actually build an emotional connection with her. Also I seem to initiate texting all the time

Fix this by getting her out.

Commission based job or not - get her out. Buy her a drink and connect with her physically.

You may have already run into a situation where you've exhausted basically everything you have to talk about because you've been texting too much/too long - and that makes the date hard to deal with.

Get her out, man... or yes, it'll fizzle.

I'm wondering how I can tell her that I plan to game other women?

Author:	henog007 [ Thu Nov 27, 2014 9:37 am ]
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So I've been texting this girl on Tinder for a while and managed to get her out on a date. We had an awesome time and we both wanted to meet up again on the end of the date. The problem is she works a commission based job 6 days of the week and often works overtime. She told me on the date that in the past she has chatted to a lot of guys and the chatting has trailed off into nothing and I'm sort of feeling that's the way our relationship is going. I really like this girl, I think we get along great, but I feel like her work is sapping all of her energy and its hard to actually build an emotional connection with her. Also I seem to initiate texting all the time

Author:	Tiika [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 7:36 pm ]
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If she likes you enough i'm sure she's willing to make sacrifices. She has busy schedule then you should surprise her with planned date that only you know.. Find out when she's having day off and take her somewhere,maybe spa with massages and everything to rub pressure off her back and she will definitely appreciate that, find something she hasn't done with anyone else, girls never forget first time experience. Don't ask her out for basic and random dates like others do she needs to find something new and feel something new along. Find out when she's available and setup a surprise date. >)

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Fri Nov 28, 2014 8:13 pm ]
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Quote: So I've been texting this girl on Tinder for a while and managed to get her out on a date. We had an awesome time and we both wanted to meet up again on the end of the date. The problem is she works a commission based job 6 days of the week and often works overtime. She told me on the date that in the past she has chatted to a lot of guys and the chatting has trailed off into nothing and I'm sort of feeling that's the way our relationship is going. I really like this girl, I think we get along great, but I feel like her work is sapping all of her energy and its hard to actually build an emotional connection with her. Also I seem to initiate texting all the time Fix this by getting her out. Commission based job or not - get her out. Buy her a drink and connect with her physically. You may have already run into a situation where you've exhausted basically everything you have to talk about because you've been texting too much/too long - and that makes the date hard to deal with. Get her out, man... or yes, it'll fizzle.

Author:	_Lothario_ [ Sat Nov 29, 2014 8:28 pm ]
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Quote: Fix this by getting her out. Commission based job or not - get her out. Buy her a drink and connect with her physically. You may have already run into a situation where you've exhausted basically everything you have to talk about because you've been texting too much/too long - and that makes the date hard to deal with. Get her out, man... or yes, it'll fizzle. I agree. Stop feeding into the daily text grind with her and get out out. Meanwhile focus your energy getting more leads.

Author:	henog007 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 7:15 am ]
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Thanks guys, I took her out on Sunday and we had another good time, I feel like we are starting to connect a little more. There is some playful teasing happening and we even made out a little after the date. I think things will progress well from here, I'm going to ask her out again soon, when she has some more free time

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Author:	henog007 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 7:39 am ]
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I'm wondering how I can tell her that I plan to game other women?

Author:	CharlesFinley [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 1:17 pm ]
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Quote: I'm wondering how I can tell her that I plan to game other women? You.... don't. Like, really. It doesn't need to be said. Just go and game other women. She's playing other guys... Almost certainly.

Author:	breedlove465 [ Tue Dec 02, 2014 2:18 pm ]
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Quote: I'm wondering how I can tell her that I plan to game other women? Unless you have both said that yall are exclusive you shouldn't say a thing.

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