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| Author: | swoldierboy [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 2:45 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Day 2 Help |
I met this girl, gamed her a bit and was able to take her home. I had sex with her and we both had to get up early the next morning. So when the morning finally came, I took her home early and we really didn't say much to one another. I didn't really know of any good follow up texts so nothing was said at all that Sunday. Kind of weird for a girl to have sex and not follow up I thought. The things that make this strange is that She doesn't really keep the texting convo alive. But she is willing to hangout whenever I ask. So I am curious as to what I should be doing next. In my eyes I am guessing that I haven't built up enough attraction for her to want to commit more towards me. But I am curious as to what someone else thinks, and what I should do next to build more of a connection. Possibly what to say to get a text conversation going. We're hanging out tonight but I kind of wanted to start texting her to get the attraction growing a little earlier. All opinions are welcome! |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 2:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day 2 Help |
Quote: But she is willing to hangout whenever I ask.
How long have you been sort of 'seeing her' and how many times have you hung out? Your post made it sound like it was just the one time, but this line suggests otherwise.If you've been out with her multiple times and you're still getting favorable outcomes, maybe she's just not a big texter... There's a case to be made that if things are working out for you with your current level of contact, then it's not necessary to change anything... But if you're unhappy with it: You could try calling... You could also be more flirty with your texts... |
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| Author: | swoldierboy [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 3:10 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day 2 Help |
We did only hang out once, but the reason I say she is willing to hang out whenever is because I asked her to hang out Monday and she said yes, but she had an emergency. Then we were going to try for Tuesday but our times conflicted. So she suggested today after I am done with work. I know it sounds like she is flaking but she is saying yes anytime we make plans. The loop that I am not understanding is why the communication is not fully there. |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 3:17 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day 2 Help |
Quote: We did only hang out once, but the reason I say she is willing to hang out whenever is because I asked her to hang out Monday and she said yes, but she had an emergency. Then we were going to try for Tuesday but our times conflicted. So she suggested today after I am done with work. I know it sounds like she is flaking but she is saying yes anytime we make plans. The loop that I am not understanding is why the communication is not fully there.
If text communication isn't working, use the phone. It's good to call anyway. More personal. Most guys don't do it. |
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| Author: | swoldierboy [ Wed Nov 05, 2014 3:19 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Day 2 Help |
Also, for the other question we asked, we met about a week ago and hung out from Saturday to Sunday. |
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