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Author:  Octave [ Sat Oct 18, 2014 6:48 am ]
Post subject:  Hanging out outside of work

So my office is a very team oriented company. Everyone is relatively close. We just got a new front desk admin and her and I are always emailing and flirting (lots of playful banter) anyways we wound up getting lunch together and the playful tone was still there. This weekend were hanging out and I'm showing her around since She is new to the area.

Is this a situation I need to be more cautious with since we work together. Any sings to look or with this particular situation? I'm trying to figure out if we have something that could potentially happen or she is just looking for a work flirt. What do you think?

Author:  oceanx [ Sat Oct 18, 2014 7:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Hanging out outside of work

Be mindful of shitting where you eat. Any # of things could happen that make every day awkward having to face her. On the other hand when you're out and around over the weekend, notice the absolute abundance of women, none of whom you'd have to see every day if it didn't work out.

As far as feeling it out, see if she is initiating any kino. See how she reacts if you initiate very innocent kino i.e. touching her arm when you say something. Steer the direction of the convo to dating to get her thoughts on it; see if she is amping up the playful tone.

Author:  _Lothario_ [ Fri Oct 24, 2014 6:39 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Hanging out outside of work

Don't shit where you eat. The less interested you act, the more interested she'll be, and the more desperate for you she'll be. She's new in town, so she has less to lose by fucking you. Stop flirting at work. Keep it professional. You could lose your fucking job over this. Put her in the friend zone. Talk about girls you date and talk to like she's one of your boys.

Money over bitches.

GFTOW

Author:  Jealousboyfriend22 [ Sun Oct 26, 2014 12:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Hanging out outside of work

LOL at pickup line you wrote at bottom

In terms of your situation, it seems like she likes you. Maybe you should try going for a casual dinner with her .. just to hang out so it wouldn't seem like you're trying to have sex with her and then move forward from there.

Hope this helps.

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