I don't know - sounds like she wanted to see you but a french lesson sounds incredibly boring to her.

I can't say I blame her... That's not much of a date... But I don't know either of you.

She suggested an alternative... And it was even a 'related' alternative (as long as that foreign movie was french)... Take it or leave it.

I don't blame her neither. I denied, so if I changed my plans because of her I look like a pawn => not attractive.

This is a good example of game doing more harm than good.

My response to her alternative option:

me- "sure, why not'

no gamey, frame, supplication battles. it wasn't a shit test. She just wants to do something else. Now you're at risk of losing her but I am sure you will be do just fine, just learn to switch game mode off and just be normal.

Exactly. Sometimes all the game stuff is just completely unnecessary. Let's see, go to some boring lesson or chill in a cinema watching a foreign film. I know which one I would have preferred to do.

She gave you compliance test. She might have wanted to go see a movie instead, but this is also a good time to show you are pre selected by other women. Someone who is pre selected wont be as compliant with women as guys who arnt pre selected. If you say yes you failed the compliance test. if you say no you're a dick. So what do you do? make it on your own terms. say,"I'll go to the movie only if your buy the popcorn." "I'll go to the movie if I can have the Isle seat." It works a lot better to call her for this conversation. I think texting through a compliance test makes you sound needy.

No. She wanted to go to a movie instead of a class.

Jack is correct.

Maybe its not intended to be a compliance test, but as far as what to say back to that, treat it like a compliance test. Just to kinda DHV. That's just my opinion.