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Author:  Bodybuilder123 [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 4:20 pm ]
Post subject:  After a great night, her texts seem uninterested.

Hey guys!
This is my first post but let me explain what has been happening to me lately.

I'm a junior in college and on the weekends I'll go out and end up finding a girl I'm interested in. We dance at the party and kiss a little bit and I end up bringing her back to my place for the night. We don't have sex, but still get a little physical.

The next morning all is well and it seems like it's all going to work out. She'll tell me: "Ok, text me later and we can hang out" or something along those lines. Yet later that evening her messages are short, and maybe even unresponsive. Blaming it on her "phone dying." (The read receipt tells me otherwise) What should I do? I hate to feel like I'm bothering her or being too clingy. Should I just drop it and move on, or keep trying?

Appreciate the help fellas!

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 5:12 pm ]
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Back off. At this stage too many messages or coming off too needy for her attention is just shooting yourself in the foot.

She has your number...

Give it a few days and shoot her a text unrelated to the ones she didn't reply to, if you haven't heard from her by then.

Author:  Bodybuilder123 [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 5:46 pm ]
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Back off. At this stage too many messages or coming off too needy for her attention is just shooting yourself in the foot.

She has your number...

Give it a few days and shoot her a text unrelated to the ones she didn't reply to, if you haven't heard from her by then.

That's the thing, I barely text her as it is. I didn't send but one message, and she didn't reply so I immediately backed off. I'd just hate to wait a couple of days and she forget about me, ya know? The spark dies haha

Author:  JackZero [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 5:53 pm ]
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I'm a junior in college and on the weekends I'll go out and end up finding a girl I'm interested in. We dance at the party and kiss a little bit and I end up bringing her back to my place for the night. We don't have sex, but still get a little physical.
I have to ask...why didn't you have sex? Is it possible that she's disappointed that it didn't happen?

Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 6:14 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After a great night, her texts seem uninterested.

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Back off. At this stage too many messages or coming off too needy for her attention is just shooting yourself in the foot.

She has your number...

Give it a few days and shoot her a text unrelated to the ones she didn't reply to, if you haven't heard from her by then.

That's the thing, I barely text her as it is. I didn't send but one message, and she didn't reply so I immediately backed off. I'd just hate to wait a couple of days and she forget about me, ya know? The spark dies haha
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I end up bringing her back to my place for the night. We don't have sex.
Charles is correct, this is where the spark died Bro.

Author:  Bodybuilder123 [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 6:20 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: After a great night, her texts seem uninterested.

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I'm a junior in college and on the weekends I'll go out and end up finding a girl I'm interested in. We dance at the party and kiss a little bit and I end up bringing her back to my place for the night. We don't have sex, but still get a little physical.
I have to ask...why didn't you have sex? Is it possible that she's disappointed that it didn't happen?

She's a virgin

Author:  JackZero [ Mon Sep 29, 2014 6:36 pm ]
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She's a virgin
Oh yeah...I hate those.

I'm with CharlesFinley if you insist on pursuing a virgin.

Author:  Bodybuilder123 [ Tue Sep 30, 2014 6:59 pm ]
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Man you all kind of left me hanging...

Author:  JackZero [ Tue Sep 30, 2014 7:16 pm ]
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Man you all kind of left me hanging...
This girl is nobody in your life. So to answer your question directly, you should drop her and move on. She knows how to contact you, so spend your time going after new women.

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