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Author:  partyjew [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 9:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Need advise on HB9(9,5?)
So I went to a festival and I met this girl in the queue and I n-closed her. Saw her the next Day in a hurry and we aggreed to hang out. I ran accross her the Final night When I was sarging and she was there with her BF but they where together just a week, he was not a nice guy and she was HOT so I decided to proceed. Isolatie her to "Smoke a sigarette " and hang out like we aggreed to do earlier. Ran the SMT boyfriend distroyer on her and she started making jokes about dumping him so I think it worked. I called her After a couple of days and we aggreed to meet up again and that we'd discuss the details later.. But When I texted her she responded After like 2 days, (hard to get?), but After that I said: I guess we both suck at texting but I think that you're a person i'd like to get to know better so are you still in to hang out? If not nice to get to know you!" (looked like she was flaking before I sent this. She responded very excided and she aggreed, but she did say: as friends..
Is this possibly a Friendzone to play hard to get or am I fucked?
Author:  Jason. [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 9:30 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need advise on HB9(9,5?)
i think there is now way to tell. Go out with her, and do the classical first date that i teach:

so you pick her up, and as you walk towards the car grab her by the waist a little bit as you walk to signal that it's a date by breaking the touch barrier.
get her to some place you can have a conversation face to face, like her seating in front of you, and talk about her all you can. I always say, you have to make the conversation about her and try to get to know her, and she has to make the conversation about you and ask you questions. But you never make the conversation about yourself, ever. if she asks you about yourself though, you have to know how to tell a good story. email me if you want help on that: projectbuenosaires2013@gmail.com

chat for as long as its reasonable, try to make it last at least half an hour, i've talked with a girl for 2 or 3 hours on first dates, face to face. It's amazing how many things you can talk about with a person you know absolutely nothing about, exactly for that reason.

after the conversation face to face try getting her to walk around with you. If there's a park close by perfect, go there and walk around, then find a place to sit down with her. When you sit down with her put your arms around her waist and keep the conversation going. If you've done well so far you will be able to leave your arm there with no awkwardness, but if you feel for any reason some awkwardness starts to build up laugh about it and pull your arm away for a moment, try again later.

Keep her talking about her life, and make her laugh

so as you talk get closer and closer, a clear way of telling her "Im about to kiss you be prepared" so it doesnt come completely out of the blue, is to get really close, smiling of course at all times, and touch her face with your hand. the best touch for me is to lightly touch her chin with your thumb and pinter finger. when you do that she'll probably react kind of saying "What are you doing?" and you then look at her smiling and kiss her.

worked a million times for me :)

hope it helps bro!

Jason from Project Buenos Aires
Author:  breedlove465 [ Tue Sep 02, 2014 9:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need advise on HB9(9,5?)
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So I went to a festival and I met this girl in the queue and I n-closed her. Saw her the next Day in a hurry and we aggreed to hang out. I ran accross her the Final night When I was sarging and she was there with her BF but they where together just a week, he was not a nice guy and she was HOT so I decided to proceed. Isolatie her to "Smoke a sigarette " and hang out like we aggreed to do earlier. Ran the SMT boyfriend distroyer on her and she started making jokes about dumping him so I think it worked. I called her After a couple of days and we aggreed to meet up again and that we'd discuss the details later.. But When I texted her she responded After like 2 days, (hard to get?), but After that I said: I guess we both suck at texting but I think that you're a person i'd like to get to know better so are you still in to hang out? If not nice to get to know you!" (looked like she was flaking before I sent this. She responded very excided and she aggreed, but she did say: as friends..
Is this possibly a Friendzone to play hard to get or am I fucked?
Definately not fucked.

If a girl is reacting to you as if she's single, but mentions the bf thing every now and then, then she's just mentioning it out of obligation, so she feels less guilty. If you take her out "as friends" and then you end up fucking her, well at least she can tell her self she wasn't planning on it. But she needs that out in her head. Its the same reason you have to have a reason to bring a girl back to your place. Yea some women will come back with a simple "lets hang out at my place" but some girls need you to actually give a reason. Something like "hey I have these pictures of my vacation to Hawaii at my place, you should come up and check them out, you'd love it". She knows you're intentions, but she has plausible deniability. This girl wants the same thing. Plausible deniability.

What's really important is have you kino escalated on this girl at all yet? Have you been touching her? grabbing her around the waist? On her shoulder? Getting in close? Have you made it clear that you want don't just want to be friends? That's what is important. Be clear and decisive. If you were clear that you want to bang her and she is agreeing to meet up, you got it. If you have been being the nice guy that just listens to her bullshit and talks nice to her, then she might honestly be expecting to just meet up and talk. And when you go to escalate it will seem out of place because you are doing it out of the blue.
Author:  partyjew [ Wed Sep 03, 2014 9:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need advise on HB9(9,5?)
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So I went to a festival and I met this girl in the queue and I n-closed her. Saw her the next Day in a hurry and we aggreed to hang out. I ran accross her the Final night When I was sarging and she was there with her BF but they where together just a week, he was not a nice guy and she was HOT so I decided to proceed. Isolatie her to "Smoke a sigarette " and hang out like we aggreed to do earlier. Ran the SMT boyfriend distroyer on her and she started making jokes about dumping him so I think it worked. I called her After a couple of days and we aggreed to meet up again and that we'd discuss the details later.. But When I texted her she responded After like 2 days, (hard to get?), but After that I said: I guess we both suck at texting but I think that you're a person i'd like to get to know better so are you still in to hang out? If not nice to get to know you!" (looked like she was flaking before I sent this. She responded very excided and she aggreed, but she did say: as friends..
Is this possibly a Friendzone to play hard to get or am I fucked?
Definately not fucked.

If a girl is reacting to you as if she's single, but mentions the bf thing every now and then, then she's just mentioning it out of obligation, so she feels less guilty. If you take her out "as friends" and then you end up fucking her, well at least she can tell her self she wasn't planning on it. But she needs that out in her head. Its the same reason you have to have a reason to bring a girl back to your place. Yea some women will come back with a simple "lets hang out at my place" but some girls need you to actually give a reason. Something like "hey I have these pictures of my vacation to Hawaii at my place, you should come up and check them out, you'd love it". She knows you're intentions, but she has plausible deniability. This girl wants the same thing. Plausible deniability.

What's really important is have you kino escalated on this girl at all yet? Have you been touching her? grabbing her around the waist? On her shoulder? Getting in close? Have you made it clear that you want don't just want to be friends? That's what is important. Be clear and decisive. If you were clear that you want to bang her and she is agreeing to meet up, you got it. If you have been being the nice guy that just listens to her bullshit and talks nice to her, then she might honestly be expecting to just meet up and talk. And when you go to escalate it will seem out of place because you are doing it out of the blue.
Yeah I escalated to a point just before kissing but when I allmost did she said: my bf is 20 meters away so I can't. This is great advise guys thanks a lot. I was actually already planning on a date like jason Said. I'll sent an update later!
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