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| Author: | alikeableone [ Sun Aug 31, 2014 10:28 am ] |
| Post subject: | Tricky Frame Changing Situation |
Hey guys i've got kind of a hairy situation on my hand. I'm an (aspiring) european screen writer and work part time at a library. Last week I signed this really cute aspiring actress up for a library card. We talked a little bit and I gave her my contact details and told her she should sent me her head shots and stuff, because I might be able to help her get her foot in the door. Now she contacted me and I'm unsure how to proceed. I want to change the frame from her wanting my help to seduction. But how can I do that without her feeling tricked or actually getting her castings (which would be bad, cause I don't usually shit were I eat). Also I need to get away from being the guy she uses to get something out of, really fast. My game plan: Call her up randomly, ask her out for coffee spontanously and just build attraction and comfort and not mention film and castings and so on, unless she does, in the hope that she is into me, before she realizes what I'm doing. Or should I invite her to a party with some film crew friends of mine? How would you guys go about it? Would you keep the "I can get you into castings" threat open or try to bury it. |
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| Author: | Dymond [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 12:52 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tricky Frame Changing Situation |
Not to be machiavellian, but you're in power. She is not. Basic PUA is that we display higher value, because women are value vampires lol. It doesnt sound like you have a good connection yet, so next time you see her- talk to her. Have a great conversation, then go for the instant date. "want to get drinks?" "want to get coffee". She'll say yes or have something legit to do, then you say "fine, saturday, 10:00. I know this great place" |
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| Author: | CharlesFinley [ Wed Sep 10, 2014 1:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tricky Frame Changing Situation |
Are you actually in a position to help her, or was that just a line? If you are - meet up with her for a couple drinks and talk about it... If not, then you could always lie about it and meet up anyway... get her stuff and say you passed it along (kinda lame, but whatever). |
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| Author: | alikeableone [ Fri Sep 12, 2014 10:56 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Tricky Frame Changing Situation |
Since she has basically no experience, yes, I could help her somewhat. Funnily enough I did pretty much what you guys said, without reading your comments till now. I called her up and invited her to a bar, where I was having drinks with a couple of colleagues. It went really well. One AMOG actor tried to game her, but I think I played that really well. Just ignored them and talked to other girls and randomly crashed their conversation with a routine once in a while. She left after a couple of hours and I walked her to the metro. Didn't go for the KC though, since I didn't really kino properly before. I texted her the next day, with a funny little sex related thing, which she didn't respond to at all, unfortunatly. After that I got distracted with another small time actress the last couple of days. I got ALOT farther with that one, but I kind of forgot about keeping up with the first one. I definitly let it cool off, so my plan is to call her up again and try for a Day 3 (this time alone). I just hope the failed sex-text didn't blow me out completely. Any comments on my strategy? |
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