talk about her place early on in the interaction but remember you arent just limited to her place i'm assuming one or both of you have a car
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| Author: | milano1 [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 12:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | bad logistics SPAM - how to suggest going to her place? |
Hey Guys. I am not staying at my apartment for the next few weeks so I need to figure out how can I suggest going to their place. I mostly game online. I am getting numbers fairly easily so that's fine. How and when would you guys introduce the idea of going to their place? M |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Wed Aug 20, 2014 11:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: bad logistics SPAM - how to suggest going to her place? |
Find a reason to go to their place. Pre-seed the pull earlier in the date about you're thinking about moving into her neighborhood and you're curious how the places are like there and then mention again later in the date or just stop in for a drink or use the bathroom. If you game her properly she will help fix logistics for you. |
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| Author: | Chris101 [ Thu Aug 21, 2014 3:37 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: bad logistics SPAM - how to suggest going to her place? |
I have lived with my parents my whole life, yet have managed to pull many times. Going to a secluded place together (ie. lookout) and banging in the car is an option, but if you don't have a car or she's not down with that idea, you can easily get to her place if she's actually DTF. On a date after making out, I will usually say something like "I feel like a change of scenery, perhaps something more private. Whereabouts do you live?" But you don't want to force it, in fact sometimes I will casually also add "We don't have too, but I'm thinking, why not". Something that's not a big deal and happens all the time. If she asks why you can't go to your place, you can make up an excuse like "my housemate doesn't like me having people over" or "my place is a mess, currently being renovated". Even though I usually tell the truth and say I live with other family members, and usually get away with it (ie. I don't care and the woman doesn't care). |
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| Author: | DrewDating [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 9:05 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: bad logistics SPAM - how to suggest going to her place? |
talk about her place early on in the interaction but remember you arent just limited to her place i'm assuming one or both of you have a car
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| Author: | breedlove465 [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 9:42 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: bad logistics SPAM - how to suggest going to her place? |
If she mentions anything about her place, anything at all, keep bringing it up and how you have to check it out. Amp it up. She: my roommate and I tried some whip cream flavored vodka the other night... Me: Oh shit that's awesome, I gotta try that. You're out of my way but I'm coming over tonight just to try that. Did you like it? etc... |
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| Author: | milano1 [ Mon Aug 25, 2014 10:44 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: bad logistics SPAM - how to suggest going to her place? |
so here is how it went. I met this chick online I actually tried to build it up via text to just meet at her house knowing that it will probably fail but seed the idea early on so she will get used to it. Haha jk. So we will have to do Sunday funday tomorrow then. Aug 23 5:25pm I am free until 5:30 or so tomorrow.. I have a friends bday dinner at 7. Aug 23 5:29pm Booked! Aug 23 5:32pm Ok.. What do you have in mind? Aug 23 6:00pm XXXX. Do you have any pets? Aug 23 6:06pm Haha. I have 2 cats Aug 23 6:08pm Names? Aug 23 6:09pm XXXX and XXXX Aug 23 6:09pm XXXX is the coolest cat is the history of cats!! Aug 23 6:09pm Omg, i love cats. Bloody Mary's and cats! Aug 23 6:14pm Do you have any pets? Aug 23 6:20pm Just some XXXX Aug 23 6:24pm XXXXX…. No that's u! OK i am taking a shower and then a friend is picking me up. Ttyl Aug 23 6:39pm Ok.. Have fun... Aug 23 6:39pm Top of the morning XXXX. Cat playdate at 1? Rocco is already in his Carrier. Aug 24 10:28am Haha.. No play date for the kitties.. I don't introduce them to strangers. I have to approve first:) Aug 24 10:30am Cats love me more than fish livers Aug 24 10:43am But I don't know you at all yet.. Can't have them getting all attached and all.. Aug 24 10:46am Seriously? Thought we had a connection already... booo Aug 24 10:50am XXXX... ur breaking my heart... disappearing into the abyss Aug 24 10:51am I'm not disappearing. I'm just saying no home visits... Aug 24 10:52am I suppose we screen each other for psychopathy at The XXXXX first haha Aug 24 10:55am That sounds more like it.. You never know. I may be a true sociopath and want to feed you to my cats like chicken livers.. You can never be to sure:) Aug 24 10:56am Share Oh no! lol Aug 24 11:05am Haha... !!!!! Aug 24 11:06am I need to screen you first somewhere public. Meet me at the XXXXX. It is daytime and we meet at a semi-busy pub. I choose a table away from others so I feel comfortable sexualizing the conversation. It goes well. I suggest we just go outside for a little bit. Pretty quick we are making out. All the while bringing up the idea of going to her place so we can enjoy each-other more. She says next time, too early, typical "I don't want to be a slut" type shit. So I suggested we go to her car and continue there. Which we do. I make her park it in the far end of the parking lot (it is 4pm) and we go at it. I ended up BJ-closing her. If she didn't own a freaking coupe I would have probably f-close her. The lesson is, always express your intentions early (let's go to your/mine place and bang) and then even if they say no, then you calibrate, and convince them to settle for something more "innocent." |
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