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| Author: | bitework [ Sun Aug 17, 2014 1:38 am ] |
| Post subject: | Rough Sex. |
I had an interesting experience recently. I have no idea if this is the forum for a topic like this, there doesn't seem to be an advice forum about actually fucking, only a forum to brag about it. She had to ask for it (probably didn't win me any points) and I had no clue what I was doing. I was completely thrown that she didn't melt like putty with my usual "sensual" seduction techniques, most of the girls I have been with recently got off on it pretty well and that in turn got me off. I always took a sort of cocky, slow, sensual, lustful approach. I try to remain in control and drive the progression of the action but I have never been "aggressive," and I particularly enjoy it when a girl says she doesn't want to go any further and then begs me for it minutes later after I back off with a smirk. She would straight up interrupt my teasing and practically tell me to get on with it (though she would do this with a grin, as if she was teasing me right back.) I had always thought myself pretty good in this department, and I have learned a few tricks to validate vocal expressions of pleasure and have since never once been with a woman that "faked it" or at least, I was able to tell when they were, call them out on it laughingly and then backtrack and help them relax a bit, and then rock their world. This was crazy. This was not what I was used to. When I started doing what I like to do, which is usually slow, firm controlling grasping mixed with light seductive touch in key areas, and a LOT of anticipation and seduction, she grabbed the wheel from me and took me down a completely different road. Like bite marks and bruises. I've never done that before. I've never really been into it. And I am sure I under-performed. Luckily, this girl came with a manual at first, she was very up-front with me, if she wanted me to do something she told me to do it, but the instructions stopped as we got deeper into it and for the first time in as long as I can remember I couldn't tell if she was faking it or not. Now here is the thing. I distinctly got the impression that she was A) focusing on giving me a memorable experience and B) not enjoying herself. Since I normally get off on the more subtle signs of arousal and orgasm that happen below the waist, I was a bit thrown by all this. I remained persistent and tried exerting a bit more "control" in the sense that I drove her to incorporate a bit more of the "slower stuff" that I am into. The grin on her face either signaled that she thought it was comically inexperienced or that she actually meant it when she said that she liked it because it was "fun and different from what she was used to." She has expressed interest in "seeing" me again, so it wasn't a total bust, but I suddenly feel like a kid, fumbling around with a bra-strap and no clue what to do. The type of girl I usually go for usually ends up getting shy in the bedroom and I work the hell out of that and have great results. This time, I was actually trying pretty damn hard and struggling to get this girl off (assuming I am correct in my assumption that there were a bit of theatricals going on.) Now, I know that there are a lot of women out there that get off on this type of thing, as to them, it is an expression of masculine control and primal desire. I get that, but I am not good at it and I can never tell when a woman wants this. Tips? How do I get better at this as I run into more women like this (for selfish reasons, because I get off on women genuinely getting off). And how do I detect when she wants this? |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Mon Aug 18, 2014 4:22 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Rough Sex. |
I've had that experience happen to me a few times as well. I usually like to go slow and sensual, but some girls like "rough" sex. At first I felt somewhat clueless, but now I just reciprocate with what she is doing and I actually enjoy rough sex now because I know how to dominate them. You just have to calibrate. You can choose to let them dominate or you can dominate by getting on top, biting them and choking them (not literally but have your hand around their neck and apply some pressure, not enough to make her pass out obviously). I usually choke most girls during sex now as it seems that it turns most of them on. |
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