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| Author: | Pinkfloyd123 [ Wed Aug 13, 2014 2:23 am ] |
| Post subject: | Ultimate guide for texting? |
Hey guys I want to really start improving my text game and right now it's quite good but I want to take it to the next level. Like, how do you get the ball rolling? Say it's a girl you've already texted 1) What do you open with. "Hey Shelly" get boring 2) What can I say after to the initial hello's to set a fun and flirty vibe ***lastly are there any thinks or something I can read up on to explain EVERYTHING about texting and make me text like a true boss. I want to know everything about it and how to do it right. |
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| Author: | WillEdward [ Thu Aug 14, 2014 6:39 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ultimate guide for texting? |
Ideally you would have already given her a fun nickname when you met her, so you can refer back to it when you text her. Since you already got her number, I assume your objective is to get her on a date? You want to keep it light and playful and set up a date ASAP. You can send ping texts like, "Hey (nickname)- how's your day ?" or refer to something funny that happened to her last time and ask how that went. Do a couple fun texts back and forth and then set up a date. |
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| Author: | dtrak [ Sat Aug 16, 2014 4:12 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ultimate guide for texting? |
You know what texting is? Is a bridge between meeting her and settin up a date to see her again. Thats all. "Text game" doesnt exist, but "communication" that exists, how good of a communicator are you overall? Always have a purpose behind your texts, I'd keep em short and fun, and mostly just focus on when is she available to go out. No one has time to sit around texting all day, unless you guys like eachother and wana text gibberish, I do it all the time with my girlfriends after ive already established a connection. But if your just gettin to know her, get to know her face to face. If the initial impression was strong enough you wont need any "text game" and if your initial impression was weak chances are she'll be flakey no matter how many magic tricks you text. So keep it simple. Keep it cool. And meet up with her. Text her all you want if shes responding well. But remember texting is a simple tool, you dont need an "ultimate guide" , alot of it is common scence. |
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| Author: | Chris101 [ Sat Aug 16, 2014 5:47 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Ultimate guide for texting? |
Something very important to texting, and will separate you from other guys, is "callback humour". Using unique references and shared experiences from the first time you met, for example things associated with you or the girl, even better when these associations are relevant to both of you. For example, how you related to something she did/does, or the ideas shared during a conversations, but also keeping it fun and flirty until you manage to meet in-person (when you can build deeper rapport). It's hard to grasp initially, but through experience you will definitely improve. But to fast-track your progress, think outside the box, but don't try too hard either - for example, avoid long-winded texts where you're trying too hard to impress, or make her remember, but instead you should assume she knows what's happening and move things forward. If she flakes or starts being too difficult from the get-go, instead of getting back into the right frame, then just move on. |
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