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Author:  qwerty_dfl [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 6:38 pm ]
Post subject:  why wouldnt she F close?

I've been on this forum for a while, and although I don't post much I've came a long way and can usually find answers to my questions on here, although I'm stumped on this one.

I've been working with this hb8.5 for a while, her friend told me she was interested in me, so I got her number. We were texting for a while blah blah. Finally decided to hangout. We were going to my friends house to drink, it was me and my friend, and she brought 2 of her friends. Her friends were smoking hot, and we had one extra girl. Anyways, we were all drinking and having a good time, I took my target into the room, spat game, started making out. I took off her clothes and started going down on her. Keep in mind we are both pretty drunk. My friend knocks on the door asking for money for food we ordered so I pause the situation with the girl and gave him the money. When I returned 10 seconds later, I hadn't even left the room, she said she thought I was different and didn't want to continue hooking up. So I said ok, she got dressed and we went back to the others, and it seemed like she was keeping her distance from me. I texted her when I woke up, asking if she got home ok and she hasn't responded.

This was a weird situation for me because the girl usually tells me when I'm going to fast and stops me if I am, but I had already undressed her and in the middle of everything she wanted to stop. I'm asking if there's anything I can do to repair or how I should play my cards for now. I'm not scared of losing her, I just would rather keep her around. She leaves for college in a month or so so I was trying to get things going asap.

Author:  Zirk13 [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 6:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why wouldnt she F close?

didn't build enough comfort

Author:  Zirk13 [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why wouldnt she F close?

im only going on what was gathered but based on the fact that you knew her interest via a friend, then it seems like not much dialogue was built between the two of you. its not enough to have convo in social settings u need some comfort building when alone. jumped the gun.

Author:  qwerty_dfl [ Wed Jul 09, 2014 7:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: why wouldnt she F close?

I totally overlooked that 6 hour comfort period that is needed. Thanks for the reply. Your opinion on fixing it? If she will talk to me, because we work together I could probably slowly start talking to her again and then try and hangout but not slam the pedal

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