Hi guys! This is my first post and there are some issues on the table that I'd like to hear your opinion on...
First of all – thanks a lot! I entered the game (on this more advanced level) only a couple weeks ago so I'm still a newbie but it appears to be going quite well. I've started to feel some improvements already... regarding confidence, self-esteem, leadership and other inner game stuff. The outer game followed nicely – f. closed a few times, k. closed a number of times and so on... above my average, so to speak =D
Previously, I dated mostly 7's-8's, didn't have a lot of problems, but I couldn't manage to really understand what was actually happening during the game. Now I'd like to give a shot at the 9's-10's, and grasp some true knowledge about gaming, or social dynamics in whole...that's why I'm here.
And now, for my main subject:
I met this beautiful HB9.5 over a friend a week or so ago, took her out on a date (billiard), didn't k.close, but it was great – I was c&f, negging, some kino...she was laughing (a lot =D), seemed to enjoy herself, showing some ioi's... we spent a quality afternoon together. However, I immediately realised she wasn't going to be just another girl. Apart from sexy, she was stunningly bright and tactful. So I decided to play a little game and see what happens – I made her work for everything she wanted. If she wanted anything. Otherwise it didn't matter anyway. In the meantime I f&k. closed a few girls just for practise and to keep my mind off her. It turned out pretty well – she msn-ed me and phoned me a few times (beats me how she got the number, get the point? =D), and suggested we should go to this C.Rea concert this weekend. Alone. I negged her a bit, but I agreed. My question is – how do I act? To narrow it down a bit – how do I close?
I would be most grateful for your answers, but please, bare this in mind: first - any routines, or sth classical is out of the question (I never used them, I never will and it's never done me no harm), second – this girl isn't worth loosing (at least because of the effort put into this - I would be ashamed of myself if this ended in a "can I kiss you?" –"no way" manner).
Suggestions very welcome, thank you in advance =D
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