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Author:  Odysseus-7 [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 11:36 am ]
Post subject:  Women who don't like kino: advice please
Met this girl at a party. 9/10. Went on second date with her and she proceeded to make things very difficult for me. She doesn't like to be touched in any way which makes it hard to escalate and she acts completely aloof to flirting. Despite this I thought I had worked my way around it and found good time to go for the kisses but she completely avoided it saying "it's not the right time for the kiss". I don't understand it. Any other woman would be begging me to take them home if I had been on my game like that night. And I know she's interested I'm getting IOIs consistently. I don't want to land myself in a friend zone. I need to close on next date. Can anyone offer any advice on this?
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 2:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women who don't like kino: advice please
There is no such female animal, that does not like to be touched by whom she is attracted to.

Either you have not built enough comfort in her mind to allow you ....... which should be well in the boundaries of a 2nd date.

Building Comfort is key to getting her in the state of mind of having sex with you.

Or you do not meet her mating standards, and therefor need to ....NEXT!
Quote:
I need to close on next date.
This underlines the fact the you are outcome dependent .... likely the cause of her shutting down.

Dependency comes off as helpless submissiveness, a needy uncomfortable vibe.
Author:  jeffyp [ Fri Jun 27, 2014 5:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women who don't like kino: advice please
Or maybe she's not looking to fuck you until she decides she wants a relationship. If that's the case, you might do well determining how you guys would work out in a long term relationship. If LTR isn't your thing, move on.
Author:  Jay (Majik) [ Sat Jun 28, 2014 3:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women who don't like kino: advice please
I've never heard of a girl who doesn't like to be touched....

Maybe she doesn't like to be touched in PUBLIC... So you get her OUT of public and alone.

Learn to understand how women feel and think. Don't be so ignorant to think just because a girl is giving you IOIs that you're okay to make her feel like a whore.
Author:  NaughtyNapoleon [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 11:23 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women who don't like kino: advice please
[quote=I've never heard of a girl who doesn't like to be touched....

Maybe she doesn't like to be touched in PUBLIC... So you get her OUT of public and alone.

Learn to understand how women feel and think. Don't be so ignorant to think just because a girl is giving you IOIs that you're okay to make her feel like a whore.[/quote]


Agree with you dude.

In my opinion, a girl like this is actually feel quite horny inside. The reason she don't want you to touche or kiss her because she don't want you to satisfy with those little things. She want more from you.

She don't want to flirt with you because she's not in a mood to flirt. Will you in a mood to flirt when you are damn horny? No, right?

Not every girl you need to flirt or build comfort to get her into bed. Sometimes she already want to go home with you the first sight you meet you.

Do her & yourself a favor, Stop flirting and take her home!

Send her my regards when she's scream out loud in your bed ;)

~Naughty Napoleon
Author:  spg_uk [ Sun Jun 29, 2014 3:39 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Women who don't like kino: advice please
Hmm you should try to build more comfort before escalating too much on kino. Try to create a connection (share some scary/sad/happy life experiences with a high emotional content) and then bring her somewhere more private (I like good pubs during mid-week, when they're almost completely empty, but still are nice venues) so to further prevent her from being "shy" in public.
Author:  Smooth Strike [ Sat Jul 26, 2014 6:53 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Women who don't like kino: advice please
Barnum statements, cold-readings, mirroring body language and sharing interests is a gread way to build rapport and comfort between two people.

Make sure that you have:
1) Demonstrated value
and 2) Established an emotional connection
before you kino someone, because she could see you as a sleaze or a creep if you haven't covered all bases well enough yet.
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