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| Author: | phixius12345 [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 6:06 am ] |
| Post subject: | Calling during the wait for the day2? |
Hey guys just a quick question. Is it bad to call between the initial pickup and the day2? After we set it up already I mean. I suck terribly at texting, and I feel like I can connect way better during a phone call. I know advice says not to have any contact really between setting up the day2 and going on it. But my day2 is a week from now and I wanted to keep some form of contact so the HB doesn't forget/flake. So would it be bad to have a short phone conversation with her every once in awhile? Like once every 2 days or something. |
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| Author: | Ruggedized [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 11:23 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling during the wait for the day2? |
Quote: Hey guys just a quick question. Is it bad to call between the initial pickup and the day2? After we set it up already I mean. I suck terribly at texting, and I feel like I can connect way better during a phone call. I know advice says not to have any contact really between setting up the day2 and going on it. But my day2 is a week from now and I wanted to keep some form of contact so the HB doesn't forget/flake. So would it be bad to have a short phone conversation with her every once in awhile? Like once every 2 days or something.
Setting up a day 2 a week after you met is gonna be rough... Don't be surprised at all if she flakes. But it's somewhat gonna depend on how much attraction, comfort, and rapport you built during your initial pickup.I'd wait a day or two, to see if she contacts you, then give her a call, tell her, "Hey, so my friends are being total lame-o's and cancelled on me tonight. So, i just had a few free hours thrown in my lap, and I wanted to see if you were doing anything fun? I've gotta be somewhere at x-o'clock, but maybe we can get a drink?" Girls love spontanuity, and this will tell you if you're wasting your time without waiting another 5 days. (Not that you should anyway, as you should be sarging in between your day 2.) Alternatively, you can send her a blank text. When she replies, you wait a few minutes, CALL her and say, "I was wondering when you were gonna work up the courage to get in touch with me. What sorta trouble are you causing?" Hope this helps! -Ruggedized |
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| Author: | phixius12345 [ Fri Jun 20, 2014 11:31 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling during the wait for the day2? |
ah well I set up the day2 with her already. And the reason we couldn't earlier is because she has cousins coming to visit over the weekend or something so we set it for the beginning of the following week. I was just wondering if it would be cool to call and have conversations with her every once in awhile to keep rapport and attraction to reduce the chances for a flake on the day2. Thanks a lot for the help! 
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| Author: | BrandonMarshall [ Sat Jun 21, 2014 2:36 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Calling during the wait for the day2? |
Quote: ah well I set up the day2 with her already. And the reason we couldn't earlier is because she has cousins coming to visit over the weekend or something so we set it for the beginning of the following week. I was just wondering if it would be cool to call and have conversations with her every once in awhile to keep rapport and attraction to reduce the chances for a flake on the day2. Thanks a lot for the help!
Short Convos only  It's best to get out of the convo on a high note... give her a cliff hanger... leave her wanting more. Don't have hour long convos with her though. |
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