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Author:  drumbum081 [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 1:46 am ]
Post subject:  confirmed day 2 for tomorrow and...nothing.

So I met this girl on the train about 6 days ago. We texted quite a bit as I was out of town for the weekend and wasn't available to meet up until tomorrow. I think I may have screwed this one up on the very last text before the meet-up. There is no way I can post the entire conversation but she was returning my IOI's and responding within 10 minutes of each text. I'll start from 3 days ago I guess:

her: Ahha! Sweet dreams ;p

me: Likewise! Try your best not to dream of me all night :p

her: Ahha it'll be hard but I'll try!

More random stupid texts, she was a little bit shy with anything bridging sexual so I kept that business low and sparse. She invited me to her open mic night (where she is performing her songs)

me: hi country star ;) What time does this open mic tomorrow get underway? I'll try my best not to make you too nervous ;)

her: Ahha hey, I believe it starts at 8! It changes every week but I'm pretty sure it's at 8 ahha. How was work? I'll be nervous no matter what but more so with you there!

me (responding quite late): Just walked out! It's always busy which is better than being bored I guess :p. How w about your day?

her: Ahha true it is better to be busy than bored! Plus time flys by faster when your busy!! And it was good! Had a lot of errands to run ahha.

me: Well to be honest that doesn't sound fun at all aha. Anyways I'm just heading out to a rehearsal. I'll see you tomorrow at 8 :)

And that my friends is where the line went flat. She actually reponds within a couple of minutes almost to a T. It's been a couple of hours. Should I even be expecting a response to that? One thought is we texted wayy more than I usually would before a day 2. I'm worried the smiley face made it seem too, I don't know... eager? Like something you would text a girlfriend or something. I just don't want to bother showing up tomorrow if she's not going to be there. Just not sure if her not replying to that is even an issue.

Thanks for your thoughts team.

Author:  flamingace96 [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 2:13 am ]
Post subject:  Re: confirmed day 2 for tomorrow and...nothing.

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So I met this girl on the train about 6 days ago. We texted quite a bit as I was out of town for the weekend and wasn't available to meet up until tomorrow. I think I may have screwed this one up on the very last text before the meet-up. There is no way I can post the entire conversation but she was returning my IOI's and responding within 10 minutes of each text. I'll start from 3 days ago I guess:

her: Ahha! Sweet dreams ;p

me: Likewise! Try your best not to dream of me all night :p

her: Ahha it'll be hard but I'll try!

More random stupid texts, she was a little bit shy with anything bridging sexual so I kept that business low and sparse. She invited me to her open mic night (where she is performing her songs)

me: hi country star ;) What time does this open mic tomorrow get underway? I'll try my best not to make you too nervous ;)

her: Ahha hey, I believe it starts at 8! It changes every week but I'm pretty sure it's at 8 ahha. How was work? I'll be nervous no matter what but more so with you there!

me (responding quite late): Just walked out! It's always busy which is better than being bored I guess :p. How w about your day?

her: Ahha true it is better to be busy than bored! Plus time flys by faster when your busy!! And it was good! Had a lot of errands to run ahha.

me: Well to be honest that doesn't sound fun at all aha. Anyways I'm just heading out to a rehearsal. I'll see you tomorrow at 8 :)

And that my friends is where the line went flat. She actually reponds within a couple of minutes almost to a T. It's been a couple of hours. Should I even be expecting a response to that? One thought is we texted wayy more than I usually would before a day 2. I'm worried the smiley face made it seem too, I don't know... eager? Like something you would text a girlfriend or something. I just don't want to bother showing up tomorrow if she's not going to be there. Just not sure if her not replying to that is even an issue.

Thanks for your thoughts team.
Lol you are overthinking this unless the day 2 is tommorow. If she got offended you could say "lol im just joking. You've got to stop thinking about me this much :)" something along those lines might work
i kinda messed up when i first started texting and i saved it by saying im joking.

Author:  drumbum081 [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 2:33 am ]
Post subject:  Re: confirmed day 2 for tomorrow and...nothing.

Quote:
Quote:
So I met this girl on the train about 6 days ago. We texted quite a bit as I was out of town for the weekend and wasn't available to meet up until tomorrow. I think I may have screwed this one up on the very last text before the meet-up. There is no way I can post the entire conversation but she was returning my IOI's and responding within 10 minutes of each text. I'll start from 3 days ago I guess:

her: Ahha! Sweet dreams ;p

me: Likewise! Try your best not to dream of me all night :p

her: Ahha it'll be hard but I'll try!

More random stupid texts, she was a little bit shy with anything bridging sexual so I kept that business low and sparse. She invited me to her open mic night (where she is performing her songs)

me: hi country star ;) What time does this open mic tomorrow get underway? I'll try my best not to make you too nervous ;)

her: Ahha hey, I believe it starts at 8! It changes every week but I'm pretty sure it's at 8 ahha. How was work? I'll be nervous no matter what but more so with you there!

me (responding quite late): Just walked out! It's always busy which is better than being bored I guess :p. How w about your day?

her: Ahha true it is better to be busy than bored! Plus time flys by faster when your busy!! And it was good! Had a lot of errands to run ahha.

me: Well to be honest that doesn't sound fun at all aha. Anyways I'm just heading out to a rehearsal. I'll see you tomorrow at 8 :)

And that my friends is where the line went flat. She actually reponds within a couple of minutes almost to a T. It's been a couple of hours. Should I even be expecting a response to that? One thought is we texted wayy more than I usually would before a day 2. I'm worried the smiley face made it seem too, I don't know... eager? Like something you would text a girlfriend or something. I just don't want to bother showing up tomorrow if she's not going to be there. Just not sure if her not replying to that is even an issue.

Thanks for your thoughts team.
Lol you are overthinking this unless the day 2 is tommorow. If she got offended you could say "lol im just joking. You've got to stop thinking about me this much :)" something along those lines might work
i kinda messed up when i first started texting and i saved it by saying im joking.
Yup, day 2 definitely for tomorrow. Do you think that smiley face would have offended her? I was worried it would be more so in the opposite direction of too friendly so to speak.

Author:  flamingace96 [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 2:49 am ]
Post subject:  Re: confirmed day 2 for tomorrow and...nothing.

nvm i read it wrong
if she isnt replying then call her tommorow and talk to her on the phone. I love the sarcasm btw
im just a newbie so my advice may not be the best.

Author:  drumbum081 [ Wed Jun 11, 2014 3:35 am ]
Post subject:  Re: confirmed day 2 for tomorrow and...nothing.

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