Ok so I wasn't going to post this, but I decided it would be worthwhile cus I wanna keep getting better Dammit!
It was the end of the night after doing a lot of approaches that were all unsuccessfull in my book. (no makeouts/numbers.)
In the basement of a club/bar, there was a girl sitting by herself on a couch. about a 7/8. I sit next to her, and open by asking if she "saw the fight outside" I tried to be animated and postive the whole time. talking about my passion for music, where she's from, yadda yadda.
At some point she told me she was from out of town and that she would be leaving in 3 days.
It was extremely loud so we could barely understand what each of us were saying. this helped with getting close to eachother though. I did alot of kino and did the thing were each of her fingers represented a different god.
I tried to do alot of push and pull. with alot of kino, and then none. I even did the trust test.
Long story short, I was able to rub my hand on her leg with my arm on her shoulder and whispering in her ear and stuff, and she was cool.
I tried to make out with her like 3 times, but each time I went in, she pulled back and smiled/giggled. I thought about moving here to another couch, but didn't go for it.
Her 2 friends ended up coming to sit next to her. and I had her type in her phone number right before she had to go.
So basically I had a number after doing kino on her hands, legs, arm around shoulder, and trying to make out with her. I thought the number would surely mean nothing, but....
ME-4:03 am- Hey babe
(this was right when she typed in her number)
HER- 4:50 am- Hey [][]
(every so often, she would send me those boxes ( [] [] ) I don't know what they meant. maybe cus of my crappy phone.)
ME-4:59 am- Lets get married. ASAP
HER-5:00 am- Drunk Guy!
ME-5:03 am- U know you love it though. Let's get something to eat
ME- 5:09 am- Do you have a fb?
HER- 5:10 am- Yeah
ME- 5:10 am- I'm O---- C---- you could add me
HER- 5:12 am- Later
HER - 5:12 am- When u are nit drunk
ME - 5:20 am - At least I can spell lol, what's your fb
HER-5:21 am -
))) Ask it when you are not Drunk!!ME 5:23 am - I'm not drunk, I wasn't lying. at least now I can find out where your from
(she had asked me if I was drunk that night, and I told I wasn't wich was true. I also asked her where she was from, and couldn't hear her cus of the music.)
HER 10:56 am - Where am I from?!
ME 12:26 pm - you talk to soft. could barely hear you last night.
HER 12:28 pm - you had to hear [] []. that's your problem
ME 12:32 pm - I think I was right. your crazy!
HER 12:34 pm -
))HER 12:46 pm - I think you were not right!
(at this point I just wanted to push the interaction to either lead it into a day 2, or just end it)
ME: 1:15 pm - Let's find out
(I call her at 1:20, she doesn't pick up)
HER: 1:23 pm - What should be found out ?!
HER: 1:23 pm - Text me I can't speak right now
ME: 1:24 pm - fb
HER: 1:26 pm - OK!
HER: 1:26 pm - Search Zahra K------
(I purposely don't friend request her. she doesn't request me either)
ME: 1:29 pm - Wow very strange name. (not in a bad way)
ME: 1:42 pm - You typed in "sara" into my phone. your so adorable
HER: 1:43 pm - Acutally Zahra is hard pronunciation for American. Sara is my american name.
ME: 1:47 pm - Lets hang out. get a feel for eachother inside and out
HER: 1:51 pm- OK, I am in my friend's home and I do not know my plan [] []
(I was actually really suprised she said yes. wasn't expecting it, so I took a long time to try to think through logistics being that she was at her friends house with no car, and was only in for a few days from out of town where she lives.)
(almost 2 hours later)
ME: 3:31 pm - Don't worry. lets do ice cream. Ill pick you up ))
HER: 3:42 pm - Sounds Good! I bring my friend u saw her last night sat near me
ME: 3:45 pm - Nah. Id rather chill with my boys if im going out with friends. Lol sorry
ME: 3:46 pm - You could meet me somwhere if you want
HER: 3:48 pm- That's good idea!! Hang out with your boys
)))) What doues your coverphoto mean on ur facebook?!0(I have a close up of a gargoyle's face for my cover photo. I'm guessing it probably rubbed her the wrong way, because I think she's a muslim)
ME: 3:51 pm - I could tell you all about it in person
HER: 3:52 pm - Tell here first
(I then try calling her again and she's too scared to pick up again. so i'm thinkin fuck this)
ME: 3:58 pm - ur such a scared little girl lol. its ok. im glad I met you.
HER: 3:59 pm - Little:)))))
HER: 3:59 pm - I don't like the way u talk to me!!!
HER: 4:02 pm -
And I left it at that.
So what do you guys think? anything I did well? what do I needa improve upon?
was it even worth it trying to text this girl?
I would appreciated any feedback.
Thank you!