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Author:  thpphrsis [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 5:35 am ]
Post subject:  3rd date. what is she thinking?
Alright some background. Shes an asian girl, with nice huge racks. :lol:

First date
Dinner and desert date. Conversation went well(I suppose), got her to laugh a little had a chat for so long i had to tell her its getting late. Tried to kino escalate but she did not reciprocate. Couldn't get into sex topics and stuff.

2nd date
Lunch date, went out well. Honestly at this point of time i was abit bored. Flirt with her a little, she gave some good replies. Had quite a fair bit of kino, even touched her butt by accident ( she didnt say anything). She was abit feeling unwell but she still stayed quite lively while flirting with me. Ask me out on a third date and only got a goodbye hug.

3rd Date
Going out tonight, but she asked if her friend could join us to have dinner and explore the city together. Do you think she asked me out to set up a 3 way thing with her friend? is this a test or what? Wtf is she thinking, im trying to get into her pu$$ tonight and she bring a friend unless she wants a 3way more than unlikely.

4th date
Got the 4th date planned out by asking her to the movies. She seems excited.

In summary im going pretty well with this girl in terms of getting her interest but i wanna speed up by getting into her pants asap. Im getting abit bored here, not sure what kind of interest she have in me though. Any advice?
Author:  CharlesFinley [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 1:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 3rd date. what is she thinking?
You need to escalate this to at least a kiss... More would be better.

There's slow and then there's REALLY SLOW.

4 dates in and you're getting a hug is ridiculous.

Either escalate or soft next and game other girls... she may come back with renewed interest if you start ignoring her.
Author:  CESARE [ Mon Jun 02, 2014 2:02 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 3rd date. what is she thinking?
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4 dates in and you're getting a hug is ridiculous.
Charles is right. Dude!! People usually get a k-close at the 3rd date at latest!!
Author:  needlz [ Wed Jun 04, 2014 11:40 am ]
Post subject:  Re: 3rd date. what is she thinking?
I find it very hard to believe she's trying to set up a 3some considering you haven't even kissed her yet.

It seems like you're on the way to friendzone and her bringing another friend will only make it worse (you will most likely not K-close with her friend around).

Personally I wouldn't next her just yet, I've had kissless 2nd dates before and managed to K-close in the 3rd and F-close in the 4th, so you never know if she's really friendzoning you or just nervous.

Cancel the date with her friend, you have better things to do and she should know that. Don't be a dick, just reschedule another date with her (and just her) for some other time, ideally as soon as possible.

You need to kiss her the next time you see her. Start working towards a kiss.
Author:  blackdumbo [ Wed Jun 04, 2014 10:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: 3rd date. what is she thinking?
No! She does not want to set up a threesome with you and her friend. You dont even have any physical chemistry for sure yet so it would be crazy to think it could escalate that quickly.

In my limited opinion I dont think she is that interested in you. When women are into a guy that last thing they want to do is bring another women or a third wheel. If she would have invited you to a group of friends hanging out or a double date with her friend and one of yours... different story.

Now... she could be trying to pass you onto her friend, who she thinks may be more compatible with you.

At this point... I would just ask her why she wants to bring a friend when you are still trying to get to know her? OR if you want to be more passive... just cancel the date with the friend and see how she reacts to/during the next date.

BD
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