Thursday evening I went for a date with a girl who's number I got during one daygame session, i.e. I had talked to her for about 5 minutes before I took her number.

I took her to a semi-private mini-cellar in a wine bar and the date went pretty well, to the extent that after 2 hours I was kissing her ear, shoulder and back of the neck. She was clearly enjoying it and was playing along, pushing me off playfully from time to time, playing with my chest hair beneath my shirt and, when I was kissing her other ear, she started kissing my ear as well. Before we left the place (after about 2 and a half hours) she would kiss me pretty passionately whenever my lips moved anywhere close to her lips (with me intending to tease her - she would just go and grab my mouth). Besides lot of sexual stuff she did say some things like "what kind of a girl do you think I am" and "Do you do this with every girl? I met you on the street" which indicated some defense on her part.

When we left we walked about a bit towards her and my place (it turned out we live pretty close) and we came by my street but I didn't really want to invite her in at that time because I had just moved in like a week ago and still needed some things like a proper duvet, sheets, etc. (that's all sorted by now). So I had walked past and towards her place, from time to time I would suddenly start kissing her (mouth and everywher else) and she would respond back pretty well, with me usually being the one who pulled off, though not always. As we came to the door of her apartment block she said "Good night" to which I responded by kissing her some more. She would put a hand on my chest and playfully, with a small amount of force, push me off just a tiny bit. I would grab one of her fingers and briefly suck it, then start kissing her again, and did this about 3 or 4 times more, with her doing her light push-off gesture but kissing back passionately.

So finally I tried the "I need to go to the bathroom" line (I don't have stuff prepared for this situation cause I normally take/try to take girls to my place) which didn't work, so I kissed her some more, said "good night" and left.

The following day (Friday) neither of us sent a text. On Saturday afternoon I sent her a "^_^" message, followed by "I have a dream" but she hasn't replied back anything (now it's Sunday evening for reference). Prior to the date she would reply to every message within an hour and a half.

My question is what's the best approach to take now. Should I just not contact her for a couple of days more, should I send her a message in like 2 or 3 days, should I give her a call some time? From the occassional moans during the evening I could tell she really liked it, don't know if I just blew it with being too pushy at her place. Normally I have the problem of taking easily the first or second no "no" for a final answer so I try to compensate for that (but not too excessively I think).

Normally I wouldn't be too bothered but I quite liked her. I will apply the standard solution to this problem which is get more numbers and dates but it would be pretty cool if I didn't lose this girl, as she is not just reasonably hot but also smart and playful.

Thursday evening I went for a date with a girl who's number I got during one daygame session, i.e. I had talked to her for about 5 minutes before I took her number.

I took her to a semi-private mini-cellar in a wine bar and the date went pretty well, to the extent that after 2 hours I was kissing her ear, shoulder and back of the neck. She was clearly enjoying it and was playing along, pushing me off playfully from time to time, playing with my chest hair beneath my shirt and, when I was kissing her other ear, she started kissing my ear as well. Before we left the place (after about 2 and a half hours) she would kiss me pretty passionately whenever my lips moved anywhere close to her lips (with me intending to tease her - she would just go and grab my mouth). Besides lot of sexual stuff she did say some things like "what kind of a girl do you think I am" and "Do you do this with every girl? I met you on the street" which indicated some defense on her part.

When we left we walked about a bit towards her and my place (it turned out we live pretty close) and we came by my street but I didn't really want to invite her in at that time because I had just moved in like a week ago and still needed some things like a proper duvet, sheets, etc. (that's all sorted by now). So I had walked past and towards her place, from time to time I would suddenly start kissing her (mouth and everywher else) and she would respond back pretty well, with me usually being the one who pulled off, though not always. As we came to the door of her apartment block she said "Good night" to which I responded by kissing her some more. She would put a hand on my chest and playfully, with a small amount of force, push me off just a tiny bit. I would grab one of her fingers and briefly suck it, then start kissing her again, and did this about 3 or 4 times more, with her doing her light push-off gesture but kissing back passionately.

So finally I tried the "I need to go to the bathroom" line (I don't have stuff prepared for this situation cause I normally take/try to take girls to my place) which didn't work, so I kissed her some more, said "good night" and left.

The following day (Friday) neither of us sent a text. On Saturday afternoon I sent her a "^_^" message, followed by "I have a dream" but she hasn't replied back anything (now it's Sunday evening for reference). Prior to the date she would reply to every message within an hour and a half.

My question is what's the best approach to take now. Should I just not contact her for a couple of days more, should I send her a message in like 2 or 3 days, should I give her a call some time? From the occassional moans during the evening I could tell she really liked it, don't know if I just blew it with being too pushy at her place. Normally I have the problem of taking easily the first or second no "no" for a final answer so I try to compensate for that (but not too excessively I think).

Normally I wouldn't be too bothered but I quite liked her. I will apply the standard solution to this problem which is get more numbers and dates but it would be pretty cool if I didn't lose this girl, as she is not just reasonably hot but also smart and playful.