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| Author: | drumbum081 [ Sun May 18, 2014 11:30 pm ] |
| Post subject: | First approach after breakup. Confused as to next step. |
Hey guys, So I used to be much more into this. I went through a really shitty breakup and it took me wayy too long to get back into it. Anyways, I have made two serious approaches since September. First one went well, slept with her and hung out for a few months. The spark ended up dying out. A couple of nights ago I worked up the courage (some help from a buddy) and I got this smoking hot girls number. I started texting her today and this is how it went (I'm actually pleasantly surprised) Me: Hey not so smooth (her name)! How was the rest of your Friday night? (I was teasing her when I met her about her lack of smoothness) Her (a couple of hours later): Hey, haha, I dunno what you're talking about. I'm sooo smooth Me (a couple of hours later): Haha just a regular player hey? That must be how you got my number. Me (genuinely a text for another friend): BTW show sarts at 1 I thinl *think Her (like 5 minutes later): Oh yeah definitely, could you tell...haha. How's it going? What are you up to this long weekend Me:Hey sorry that last message was actually meant for a buddy haha. God I suck at phones Her: Haha no worries, I didn't even notice it. Oh cool, nothing to exciting, going out for pizza mm mm Me: Gotta love pizza! If you find yourself bored after pizza you are welcome to come to by the show. I swear that wasn't planned aha...though I kind of like the way it worked out. Her: Haha yeah, I'll keep that in mind So my thoughts, that was a little lower value text then I was initially receiving (I think?). However, I don't think it's a game over or anything. I haven't responded yet because at this point I'm completely clueless as to what to say. I hope I didn't come off as too eager by inviting her out so soon, I thought since she was asking what I was doing she was perhaps interested. Any thoughts? |
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| Author: | ConfidenceMatters [ Sun May 18, 2014 11:47 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First approach after breakup. Confused as to next step. |
There's no response needed. Just wait until she texts you asking for directions or whatever. If she doesn't show up just ask her to hang out in a couple of weeks all while meeting other women I recently got out of a relationship a month ago. Hooking up takes some time, be patient. |
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| Author: | drumbum081 [ Sun May 18, 2014 11:58 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First approach after breakup. Confused as to next step. |
Sounds good. She actually texted me back a bit later. Her: Your friends band,what kinda music do they play? Me: They are pretty mellow country/folk. Though they are more so the background music for the night I think. Ever been to this place? Her: No I haven't, I've kind of always wanted to though, I hear they serve breakfast all day Me: Breakfast all day?? Neither have I acutally, but I'm even more excited now Her:Right? Breakfast is the best meal! If you get it you gotta let me know how it is, craft has brunch of the weekends, but it was a major disappointment. I feel like my pick up on IOI's is so out of touch. Is this her hinting at breakfast? Oh well, I already asked her out once on the first day of texting haha. Think I'll leave it for a bit and then pick up again tomorrow or something haha. |
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| Author: | ConfidenceMatters [ Mon May 19, 2014 1:32 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: First approach after breakup. Confused as to next step. |
She's not going out with you because her interest levels are low. She might be seeing another guy or is just really shy. |
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