This is situational.
If you did your homework and know that the girl is a bit insecure and finds you handsome, you might learn something from my experience. This is what happened to me before in one sarge. It went like this: After agreeing on meeting up at day x at place y and time z, the girl backed out while I was at place y at time z on day x.
So I made a guess that she won't meet up because she used another picture of a girl because she thinks she's not pretty. She told me several times before the date that I'm goodlooking and/or handsome. With that in mind, I said something like (on the phone):
HH: Look babe. I don't care for looks. What matters to me most is personality and if the girl is a good kisser. Are you a good kisser?"
Girl: I'm the best kisser, you'll ever meet.
HH: Cool. Come over now then. Just go with what you're wearing; nothing fancy. No need to go to a hairdresser.
Girl: But... But...
HH: No buts. Just come over here right now. I'm waiting.
Girl: Okay, I'll just be wearing a green t-shirt.
HH: Cool.
After 30 minutes or so, she showed up. She's a bit on the fat side but she's the girl alright and pretty. Thing was, she had a pimple. She's smiling and giggling as she approached and hugged me like we knew each other for a long time. We kissed at the mall with a lot of people around. One thing led to another real quick and we banged for several hours.
That's how you hook insecure girls who back out on a date. Let's sum it up:
1. Assure them that you're not a looks guy and that you appreciate girls more for their personality.
2. Qualify them with something conservatively sexual like: "I like good kissers. Are you a good kisser?"
3. Use masculine language and lead. "Come over here, now."
4. Accept. "Cool."
It could also be the reverse too. She might not find you attractive enough.
One more thing. Next time bro, when you set a meet up for the first time, don't go to her place. Meet up at a place where she has to put in an effort to see you. Let girls invest and you'll be good.
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