Disclaimer: Ok, I'm going through a bad patch now. With oneitis. I am banging no chicks. However let me explain what is going wrong.

Firstly your getting buyers remorse. Essentially there isn't enough comfort there. A fuck load of attraction but the comfort is off. This has happened to me on a few occasions.

Secondly you say its either one night stands or long term relationship. No. Go for the sweet middle ground. That's what I do. A girl that is around for weeks/months. And have many girls. In my experience its the only way.

Also that is a decent conversion rate depending on how much you go out. I'm out a couple of times a week, usually the weekends. I usually average 5 a month. One thing I notice is that when that figure rises, its because I lower my standards and the lays would never progress as I don't like them enough. So could be something to think of.

My advice would be to get higher quality girls and build plenty of comfort. Makes sure your building comfort for like 7-10 hours. If there is a women you actually like, don't rush them to bed. 1 new high quality girl to add to your rotation in a month is a good figure opposed to 1 a week. Baring in mind you will still have a number on rotation and peppered in that will be random lays with girls you'll never see again. The one night standers.

Hope that makes sense. In summary have multiple girls on the go. High quality ones. This is your rotation. The backbone of it all. Then pepper in random bangs on nights out where possible.

That's my approach and I recommend it.

Where are you meeting these women? Are you meeting them during night game and getting SNL? Picking them up in the local "watering hole"(Place where women are easy and it's just about picking up a chick and fucking her then tossing to the side)? More context.

There could be a few things so i'll list them:

1. You're terrible in bed. Women lie, just deal with it. If you were the most amazing fuck in her life she would come back for more. If you were so and so or average she's going to find another guy with the same skills easily.

2. You're picking up women that are only interested in a one night stand and nothing more. This could be tied to where you're going to get these women such as well known clubs that are primarily for getting the easy lay(Every town and city has a handful of these).

3. You're too needy in the morning and they sense this. If you become needy, cuddly with them and shit in the morning it's going to scare them off. Try getting up early, making toast and setting aside a bit for her if she wakes up. Don't make a big deal out of it more of a "I made toast, you may aswell have some." kind of attitude.

4. You could be waiting far too long to get in contact with them. If you've just fucked a girl and you're waiting a few days to get in touch that's just bad form. Try sending a text later in the day saying something simple like "Hey, last night was fun. We should do it again. " and just leave it at that. If she replies she'll say something like "Yeah, I had fun" blah, blah, blah... Then just leave it until next time you head out and hit her up "Hey cutie, i'm heading out. You should come." Keep it simple.

5. As mentioned: Buyers remorse. No need to go on about this.

The game has 3 main phases - m3 model. look it up if your unsure. Your problem is in the last phase the comfort phase.

I can assure you comfort is not the last phase. Seduction is.

Sociable(Approach -> Opener)
Comfortable(Hook -> Mid-Game)
Seducer(n-close, k-close, f-close)

These are the three main phases of Pick Up including MM.