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Author:  The Grinder [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 12:59 pm ]
Post subject:  Chemistry From Girl Who Works at the store
Ok, so I had to return a product to a store where I dealt with the same girl twice. I sensed a real connection, but there were her co-workers there too, so it was kind of awkward to ask her out there.

I was getting a lot of IOIs the second time I went into the store. She is really hot HB8 and I think we would have some things in common..

Anyway… I want to ask her out! Would it be except able to call the store and ask her out that way? I'm not sure exactly how to ask her out or where to ask her to go… Maybe a lunch or something? Anyone have any smooth ideas here????? I really like her and not really experience with asking girls out this way.

Its just a small retail store with maybe 4-5 other people working at the same time… Oh yea, she also hooked me up with a bid discount too :)

My pride and ego are out of control :( feel like she is so hot she probably gets asked out a lot erg. Help please :)
Author:  Compass782 [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 3:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Chemistry From Girl Who Works at the store
Hey The Grinder, I like that maybe if you play your cards right you could Grind Her?.

A couple of weeks ago I didn't number close on a girl, and she didn't didn't show up(but was totally in to me). So I knew what class she was in and tried to organize through the coordinator a sit in to her class so I could meet her(I knew what course didn't know what room....). I guess the coordinator could smell something cause he never got back to me even after phone calls and emails :/.
I ended up meeting her randomly and got her number.

Here's my point, the more intricate you have to be to land this girl... the more creepy you come off. Please do not call her work and ask her out, this would only display insecurity and a lack of confidence, and I'm willing to bet she'd say no...its lame,period.

You don't want her co workers to know whats going on?. Go to the store with a note that says Can I have your number? ;) You find this girl and just say "Hey I returned an item the other day, and I for got to ask you'r opinion on something"..... pulls out note with receipt "Do you think this could work?" then slip the paper out with a pen. Make sure to smile and make eye contact.

Let me know how it goes!
Author:  The Grinder [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 6:47 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Chemistry From Girl Who Works at the store
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Hey The Grinder, I like that maybe if you play your cards right you could Grind Her?.

A couple of weeks ago I didn't number close on a girl, and she didn't didn't show up(but was totally in to me). So I knew what class she was in and tried to organize through the coordinator a sit in to her class so I could meet her(I knew what course didn't know what room....). I guess the coordinator could smell something cause he never got back to me even after phone calls and emails :/.
I ended up meeting her randomly and got her number.

Here's my point, the more intricate you have to be to land this girl... the more creepy you come off. Please do not call her work and ask her out, this would only display insecurity and a lack of confidence, and I'm willing to bet she'd say no...its lame,period.

You don't want her co workers to know whats going on?. Go to the store with a note that says Can I have your number? ;) You find this girl and just say "Hey I returned an item the other day, and I for got to ask you'r opinion on something"..... pulls out note with receipt "Do you think this could work?" then slip the paper out with a pen. Make sure to smile and make eye contact.

Let me know how it goes!
The only thing I'm worried about is going in there and acting nervous.... I don't want to seem nervous and I feel like i would be if i did it that way... hmmm.......
Author:  Compass782 [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 7:50 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Chemistry From Girl Who Works at the store
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Hey The Grinder, I like that maybe if you play your cards right you could Grind Her?.

A couple of weeks ago I didn't number close on a girl, and she didn't didn't show up(but was totally in to me). So I knew what class she was in and tried to organize through the coordinator a sit in to her class so I could meet her(I knew what course didn't know what room....). I guess the coordinator could smell something cause he never got back to me even after phone calls and emails :/.
I ended up meeting her randomly and got her number.

Here's my point, the more intricate you have to be to land this girl... the more creepy you come off. Please do not call her work and ask her out, this would only display insecurity and a lack of confidence, and I'm willing to bet she'd say no...its lame,period.

You don't want her co workers to know whats going on?. Go to the store with a note that says Can I have your number? ;) You find this girl and just say "Hey I returned an item the other day, and I for got to ask you'r opinion on something"..... pulls out note with receipt "Do you think this could work?" then slip the paper out with a pen. Make sure to smile and make eye contact.

Let me know how it goes!
The only thing I'm worried about is going in there and acting nervous.... I don't want to seem nervous and I feel like i would be if i did it that way... hmmm.......

Don't think too much and just do it! just do it!. I call it Pounce and Bounce which means just do it,and leave.
I still fall victim to the voices in my head "I'll ask her in a minute","Shes with a friend,she looks busy..." the excuses go on and on friend, and I usually lose out.
Whenever I act though, I can't think of one instance where I regretted it :). If you are nervous,she WILL cut you some slack, and let you do your bit,if only because you have some repore. Like I said I've NEVER regretted acting, but I always regret not acting....
Author:  The Grinder [ Sun Apr 13, 2014 8:08 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Chemistry From Girl Who Works at the store
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Hey The Grinder, I like that maybe if you play your cards right you could Grind Her?.

A couple of weeks ago I didn't number close on a girl, and she didn't didn't show up(but was totally in to me). So I knew what class she was in and tried to organize through the coordinator a sit in to her class so I could meet her(I knew what course didn't know what room....). I guess the coordinator could smell something cause he never got back to me even after phone calls and emails :/.
I ended up meeting her randomly and got her number.

Here's my point, the more intricate you have to be to land this girl... the more creepy you come off. Please do not call her work and ask her out, this would only display insecurity and a lack of confidence, and I'm willing to bet she'd say no...its lame,period.

You don't want her co workers to know whats going on?. Go to the store with a note that says Can I have your number? ;) You find this girl and just say "Hey I returned an item the other day, and I for got to ask you'r opinion on something"..... pulls out note with receipt "Do you think this could work?" then slip the paper out with a pen. Make sure to smile and make eye contact.

Let me know how it goes!
The only thing I'm worried about is going in there and acting nervous.... I don't want to seem nervous and I feel like i would be if i did it that way... hmmm.......

Don't think too much and just do it! just do it!. I call it Pounce and Bounce which means just do it,and leave.
I still fall victim to the voices in my head "I'll ask her in a minute","Shes with a friend,she looks busy..." the excuses go on and on friend, and I usually lose out.
Whenever I act though, I can't think of one instance where I regretted it :). If you are nervous,she WILL cut you some slack, and let you do your bit,if only because you have some repore. Like I said I've NEVER regretted acting, but I always regret not acting....

Ok... I have to add to this a little bit and hope I can get a little more help... at least to mentally prepare me anyway...

Ok, so I actually talked to this girl a long time ago and she works at a head shop.. Not only do we both smoke weed, but we both are into business as well. These are key fundamentals in what I'm looking for... It's hard to find girls to smoke weed when you don't know a lot of people in town!

Anyway, I'm talking to other girls from online site I can go out with as well, so I don't have oneitis or anything, I just really think we would have similar interests...

Say I go into the store and she's not there, or she has a customer... Say the situation doesn't leave us alone that I can ask for her number comfortably.. Then what? Should I continue to drive there and go into the store... I guess I could buy cigars for blunts or something hahah...

Anyway... I dunno! Like you said I definitely want to make a move of some sort... I just need to talk myself into this! Erg the pride and ego in my head ! I need to just do it huh??

I didn't realize that calling the store would seem weird... Does anyone else agree as well! I really appreciate the help Compass!
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