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Author:  Zigara [ Fri Apr 11, 2014 9:47 pm ]
Post subject:  HELP PLEASE!

So I was texting this girl from my school while she was in Turkey about two weeks ago. when she came back to our country we kept texting so I told here " If u dont bring me a chocolate from Turkey, you r taking me immediatly ( not sure if i spelled this right, sorry for my english, not my first lang. ) for a drink. And she had a laugh there and said " you r the one who should bring me a chocolate for welcome or something like that. But then she said that she forgot that she was planing on going out tomorow so she cant, and said well we ll go out some other day for a drink.

So we arranged a drink for today, and we were texting on wednesday last time, she said drink on friday i said yes. So today waited her to finish her lessons, but when we got each other on the street she said " thank you for not calling me and not saying anything, and she was the offended and not me even though i waited for her... i said to her on wednesday just let me know when u r done with school and she said ok and she didint send anything!!

And today she texted me i didnt know if u were serious or joking and things like that and she said we ll go out one day when we plan day nicely.


I said suree, in a sarcastic way, and she sent me a kiss...
Im thinking not go on drink with her ever, fool me once fool me twice...you know ehat im talking

Im not some retarded guy, im an avarage sportsguy there are girls in school that like me, and im not in a mood for chasing anyone, especially girls like this one, even though i think she might would like to really go out with me, but im not in a mood for her anymore.

Need your opinion, thanks!

Author:  GamesSN [ Fri Apr 11, 2014 10:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP PLEASE!

She obviously doesn't know where she stands with you.

You said she was upset you didn't message her in between Wednesday and when you were supposed to meet up after for a drink? Try to think why she would be annoyed and what reason she would to have those emotions tied to you. She likes you and wanted attention. You didn't confirm your date with her on the day and she took it to mean you were blowing her off so she was upset and unprepared.

So, let me get this straight... The chick randomly messages you after being upset that you ditched her(In her mind you ditched her) to say she doesn't know if you're serious about going out on a date with her or just joking? This shows a lack of confidence on her part. She likes you and she wants confirmation that you like her back. She's not going to put herself out on a limb and risk being embarrassed. You have to tell her you're serious about going out with her for a drink.

Don't take this shit so personally. She's a woman, she's emotional and she'll act on her emotions, not based on her logic. You need to realise that women can be petty and do stupid things in the spur of the moment when they really like you.

My suggestion: Send her a message and say you're serious about heading out for a drink and then set a day that works for you. Tell her you'll pick her up on the Tuesday and you can go to the pub together or whatever. Work it from there. If she plays actual mind games then feel free to move on.

Author:  Zigara [ Sat Apr 12, 2014 7:21 am ]
Post subject:  Re: HELP PLEASE!

Thanks bro, I see your point!

Cheers! :)

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