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Author:  sidechain [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 2:25 am ]
Post subject:  K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
What's up brothers! A little background, I was out of the dating scene for a couple months after a terrible break up, but now that I'm back in, I decided to read up on PUA.


This past weekend was a blast, I met a girl who seemed super into me at the time, we connected and I was able to k-close her as well as getting her number. I honestly think I could've even F-closed her if I didn't forget my phone (that was completely my fault and thats what I get for getting hammered before the club). Everything seemed fine the next day, she agreed to a day 2 and gave me some direct IOI's like asking me questions, and texting with a lot of emoticons (don't know if this is a direct IOI but she seemed excited to text me). I tried not to text too much, and I even cut it short by telling her I was going to go out with my friends Saturday because she said she was studying.

This was the last convo via text until i texted her late afternoon today:

Her: Haha. You're such a party animal!

me: Haha, not even. After last night, I'd say you're just as much of a party animal as I lol

me: I'm going to go meet up with some friends right now so good luck studying ms nerdy pants:P (my attempt at some text banter)

Her: Lol! We'll see about that

Her: Thanks (: have fun :) :) :)


Now sunday comes, I wait until late late afternoon to text her what her schedule is like for next week so that I can set up a day 2, but I haven't gotten a text from her since.

Any ideas as to where it could've gone wrong?

Im not too bummed out as I've taught myself not to focus on the end game, and just enjoy the actual process. I just want to be better next time so that I can avoid any more flakes. Thanks!
Author:  gL0v3zzz [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 3:08 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
What did you text her the last time? The one that she didn't respond to?
Author:  sidechain [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 3:15 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
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What did you text her the last time? The one that she didn't respond to?
I tried to be straight forward with her so I can cut out any unnecessary text exchange.

This is what I said:

"Hey~ what's your schedule like next week?"
Author:  sidechain [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 4:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
Alrighty guys, well, she just texted back saying shes only free on the weekends and I have some mixed feelings about this.

First, I don't know how I'm going to keep her interested for a week when she takes forever to text and I don't want to be the one texting her which may convey I might be desperate (which I'm not, but the date would be nice).

Any suggestions?
Author:  gL0v3zzz [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 4:10 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
I'd wait a few days, girls take their time to respond sometimes. If she's doesn't respond, text this to her:

'It's been a pleasure'

And move on.
Author:  gL0v3zzz [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 4:12 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
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Alrighty guys, well, she just texted back saying shes only free on the weekends and I have some mixed feelings about this.

First, I don't know how I'm going to keep her interested for a week when she takes forever to text and I don't want to be the one texting her which may convey I might be desperate (which I'm not, but the date would be nice).

Any suggestions?
See? I told you chicks take their time ;) Just banter dude, be a cool guy that's fun to talk to. Keep it up for a week and she'll definitely want to see you.
Author:  sidechain [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 4:16 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
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Alrighty guys, well, she just texted back saying shes only free on the weekends and I have some mixed feelings about this.

First, I don't know how I'm going to keep her interested for a week when she takes forever to text and I don't want to be the one texting her which may convey I might be desperate (which I'm not, but the date would be nice).

Any suggestions?
See? I told you chicks take their time ;) Just banter dude, be a cool guy that's fun to talk to. Keep it up for a week and she'll definitely want to see you.
Sounds like a plan man, however, since she texts VERY sparingly, should I stop texting her for a couple days to see if she initiates anything? Or would it be fine if I initiate it every day of this week until the date day? Again, I try to keep my responses quick and witty so keep that in mind ...
Author:  gL0v3zzz [ Mon Mar 17, 2014 5:26 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
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Alrighty guys, well, she just texted back saying shes only free on the weekends and I have some mixed feelings about this.

First, I don't know how I'm going to keep her interested for a week when she takes forever to text and I don't want to be the one texting her which may convey I might be desperate (which I'm not, but the date would be nice).

Any suggestions?
See? I told you chicks take their time ;) Just banter dude, be a cool guy that's fun to talk to. Keep it up for a week and she'll definitely want to see you.
Sounds like a plan man, however, since she texts VERY sparingly, should I stop texting her for a couple days to see if she initiates anything? Or would it be fine if I initiate it every day of this week until the date day? Again, I try to keep my responses quick and witty so keep that in mind ...
I would play it by ear. I think the biggest thing for you right now is to forget about the date. It's seems to be on your mind. Just talk to her and then bring it in naturally. Just don't make it the focus of the conversation, narmean?
Author:  MarylandsFinest [ Tue Mar 18, 2014 1:47 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
This was your welcome to night game buddy. Day 2's can be flakey off # closes/k closes at night. This is bound to happen with night game. Just roll with the punches, and next time regardless of logistics, lack of phone or whatever, just go in. Night game is an all in arena. I dont expect anything from these girls the next day bc women are flakey as shit, so I just aim and screen for the dtf and press for ONS. Dont love these hoes brother
Author:  sidechain [ Tue Mar 18, 2014 11:20 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
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This was your welcome to night game buddy. Day 2's can be flakey off # closes/k closes at night. This is bound to happen with night game. Just roll with the punches, and next time regardless of logistics, lack of phone or whatever, just go in. Night game is an all in arena. I dont expect anything from these girls the next day bc women are flakey as shit, so I just aim and screen for the dtf and press for ONS. Dont love these hoes brother
Thanks for your input! I'll try to day game more from here on out but with the group of friends I have, a night game is much more plausible and much more frequently accessible.



Current update on the HB6 I opened last week.


She still doesn't initiate any text conversations but does respond with lots of IOI's. I think shes just playing the 'hard to get' card on me but I'm aware of it and don't really care (I made it a thing where if i'm doing something, I'll finish what I'm doing and then maybe even wait even longer to text her back). I'm seeing her friday at a concert/rave thing and it seems to be going okay. I'm trying my best to implement the push/pull method and keep her interested until then. I don't want Friday to roll around and have her completely lose interest in me.


Also I'd like some input in this text convo I had and if it was the right thing to do.

(under the premise that I actually forgot I won vip tickets for the concert i'm going to at the club last friday)

her: LOL! you drunkie! I thought I was drunk and just imagining things lol

her: you owe me a kiss from (insert artist name here)

me: for sure, after a hot make out sesh with him, ill reassure him that it was completely no homo cause i
owe my homegirl (insert girl's name here) one ;)

her: Lol!

her: happy st pattys day btw!

me: happy st pattys day to you, :) *pinch*

her: Lol! Punk


I stopped texting her after that since I didn't want to leave the conversation when shes not as invested in it. Did I do the right thing?
Author:  Musterion [ Sat Mar 22, 2014 2:15 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
I think you're doing fine dude, you're not badgering her with messages which would be a sure fire way to lower her interest, I like that you didn't respond to "Lol! Punk" and I think after a couple days freeze out shoot her another nonchalant text, then after a little fluff, try and make some plans for the weekend.
Author:  sidechain [ Wed Mar 26, 2014 4:07 am ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
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I think you're doing fine dude, you're not badgering her with messages which would be a sure fire way to lower her interest, I like that you didn't respond to "Lol! Punk" and I think after a couple days freeze out shoot her another nonchalant text, then after a little fluff, try and make some plans for the weekend.
Thanks man, I have my date with her tomorrow, and she's brought me out with her friends to drink a couple days ago too. I think that was a shit test to test the waters before we went on our first date, so I'm assuming I did good enough for her to accept the date with me lol.
Author:  GamesSN [ Wed Mar 26, 2014 1:57 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
I would just try keep it interesting. Role play with her, get her involved in a fun conversation. Try role play with her about her being your mistress if you were seeing someone or you being her secret play thing if she had a boyfriend. Don't be afraid to compliment but don't over do it, be c/f and push-pull in your texts. She'll either be into it or not. If she's not there's any number of reasons for this but if she clearly isn't taking the bait after you met her on a drunken night out just move on. It's normal for women you meet in night game to flake. Think about it: You met this chick while she was drunk. At the time she thought it was a good idea to kiss/fuck you but the next day she's having her doubts. No matter how great you are it's all down to the girl and how she treats these things. Some will be weirded out by a guy they just kissed trying to meet up with them so shortly.

Honestly, i'm of mind to believe you have to anticipate exactly what it is a woman wants from you after you n-close. Was she horny when you met her and just wanted the D? Chances are she'll meet up with you on a night out after drinks so arrange to meet her one of the nights when she's out with friends. Was she nice and seemed really into you? Wanted to talk and showed interest in getting to know you more on a more personal level? Meet up for a Day 2 and have coffee. Most of the time the women won't want to go for coffee or meet up unless they're looking for something a bit more than FWB or a kissing buddy.
Author:  PUA Kenny [ Wed Mar 26, 2014 3:36 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: K and # closed at a club friday night, being ignored now
Most of the commenters here seem to be missing the point that it isn't about texting and text game mistakes at this point.

The original poster should've realized that nightclubs and bars are for one-night stands and same night lays.

You don't # close girls you meet @ clubs. You push for the same night lay.

If you do # close her; she will flake 9 in 10 times!

Period!

So make this a learning lesson for future attempts that you should always look to f-close women the same night and not rely on playing phone and text game.

And how did forgetting you phone prevented you from f-closing the girl the 1st night? That question is for the original poster.
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