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| Author: | Cain0 [ Thu Feb 13, 2014 7:56 pm ] |
| Post subject: | A good way to close this girl??? |
Hey all. I am almost certain I am going to close this girl next Tuesday at her birthday party. I sometimes have trouble closing girls though and come off nervous and awkward. If anyone read my last thread on alcohol and it's effects on game, I am going to close completely sober for one of the first times in my life. Here is the deal, I go around with a group of people at university, and there is this girl who is super sexy. I have just recently learning about DHV's, so I have been shooting these for the past 2 weeks (loud voice, confident body language, assertiveness and passing her shit tests). I feel I have been doing this quite well but I have not qualified her as of yet (again, I posted in another thread) because it feels pretty awkward and I don't wanna blow myself out when im getting a few IOI's. Anyways, here is the deal. Im pretty sure she likes me because when talking with her today, she was mindlessly playing with her hair a lot, staring deep into my eyes. I sat next to her in the lecture and talked for a few minutes before it started. Then, for about 5 minutes, our arms were rubbing together and she didn't really move hers and I didn't move mine. Not much happened for about an hour after that, then our legs started rubbing against each other (She had her legs crossed and our calf's were rubbing against each others). I feel as if I missed an opportunity here because im sure she was pretty horny, however, I can't exactly escalate in the middle of the lecture when the lecturer is already pissed at me for talking. What do you think would be the best way to close this girl at her party. I REALLY do not want to fuck this up so advice is appreciated. Also, a funny neg story. I was also talking to this other girl today who lives in Middlesbrough (UK). Middlesbrough is notoriously for it's air pollution. We were talking about getting spiked in clubs and she said she got spiked in Middlesbrough before. Before she could explain herself, I dropped a mild neg (something along the lines of "You get spiked in Middlesbrough, did you breathe the air or something". She acted super pissed and said "You've just ruined the conversation" and turned around. I just laughed it off and didn't acknowledge her anger. I feel as though I played this pretty perfectly because she was staring at me a few times afterwards and responded positively when I said bye to her. Would you say I played this well or did I fuck it up as I was building good rapport??? Thanks for any advice guys. |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Fri Feb 14, 2014 3:09 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A good way to close this girl??? |
The best thing that has worked for me...well if your going to see her at the party...? I would just say hey do you want to go somewhere quieter where we can talk? I mean thats what worked for me though. |
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| Author: | maxwell_28 [ Fri Feb 14, 2014 5:21 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A good way to close this girl??? |
Since it's her b-day... everybody will treat her like a star that night. Be the guy who DOESN'T. Wish her happy b-day ONCE with confidence and "alpha", and without it being such a big deal... as you do so, give her a small kiss... even possibly on the lips (i would try to wait until she has a couple drinks before wishing her happy b day - but this may not be possible) Good luck max ps: newbie here so take it for what it's worth |
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| Author: | prince_prince [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 1:03 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A good way to close this girl??? |
Or....you could just ask her...hey do you want to go somewhere quiet... Lol the game honestly doesnt "work" per say. Its only there for confidence... I have found that I have gotten the MOST laid, when I don't take the game to seriously... |
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| Author: | bustinuts [ Sat Feb 15, 2014 5:36 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A good way to close this girl??? |
Quote: What do you think would be the best way to close this girl at her party. I REALLY do not want to fuck this up so advice is appreciated.
bold=the reason why you might screw this upjust tell her to come sit down with you and take it from there, it's really that simple. you talk a little bit then you kiss her |
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| Author: | gambitnyc [ Sun Feb 16, 2014 12:02 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: A good way to close this girl??? |
I personally feel that trying to close the birthday girl is going to be extremely difficult. Everyone who is out is there to see her, everyone will be buying her shots, her friends are going to want to celebrate with her - it makes it much harder to isolate. Plus there will be blocks all over the place. I'm not saying you can't overcome it but I wouldn't expect too much. Go in there, lay some good groundwork, act confident and charming, and if you don't close plant the seeds for next encounter. |
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