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Author:  Vito [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 6:18 am ]
Post subject:  What the hell is wrong with this girl?

After having a great first meet with this girl, I got her number. I waited a day to start texting her and got pretty much ignored after the first few texts. So I chalk her up to a flake and delete her number. A few days later I get another text from her out of the blue saying Hi! I sent her one message asking her what she was up to... and again I was ignored for several hours. So I wait until night time and text her again asking what she was up to. She actually responds to this one and tells me she's watching The Big Bang Theory on TV. I ask her which episode... and she goes silent again.

Please tell me I am not the only one with this problem. This chick is acting weird as hell and I really don't know how to handle this one.

Author:  Hejsan [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 10:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

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After having a great first meet with this girl,
With some Kiss Kiss Bang Bang?

You had some small texts messaged. I also answer sometimes a day later. Not because I want to be rude or play games but I am kinda busy. Normal way and I dont value the other person that high. I am upset when someone else does that. Maybe but then I find something else to do and stop brainfucking myself.

How about you call her, ask her how shes doing and ask her out on a day 2?

Author:  Vito [ Fri Feb 07, 2014 5:58 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

The thing is she initiates the text and then she ignores me. It's weird as hell. I've tried calling her before and it goes to voice mail.

Author:  Sauceuke [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 7:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

She's either really busy, she has a slight interest in you but you're not interesting enough, or both. Work on your openers and distract yourself

Author:  Vito [ Sat Feb 08, 2014 9:34 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

Yeah, she initiated the conversation when we first met too, but I kept ti going, and invited her to sit down.

Author:  Chameleon00 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 12:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

Dont text someone when they dont reply.Imagine you are playing tennis,and you send the ball to her side of the court,so its her turn to send it back,you dont keep sending balls to her !

Does she have a boyfriend?Girls in a relationship may give you their number,but maybe she doesnt answer cause she is talking/being with her bf.

Calling her is totally AFC,you dont know her too well to call her.If she texted you after some days,its means she didnt just forget you,she actually sounds like a typical dude who sends messages to girls when he is bored,and waits for a reply.

Dont focus on that girl,let her focus on you if she wants too !

Author:  detox75 [ Mon Feb 10, 2014 1:19 am ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

Vito your main problem is your analyzing this shit like she's a guy, very afc mistake.

Woman will often hedge their bets and take their time to decide their interests until they have a clear enough understanding of who their target is, and what his value and uses are. She has some slight interest in you but either she has logistical issues, (another guy higher up on her priority list) or she is shit testing you.

As the other poster said dont double text. Ping her once in a while with something flirty and respond to her texts after a delay. If her logistics change you now have maintained or slightly increased your value, at this point calibrate correctly and go for the meet up. Seeming needy and thirsty via text turns her slight, possible interest, into no interest.

Author:  nikzki [ Wed Feb 12, 2014 9:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: What the hell is wrong with this girl?

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After having a great first meet with this girl, I got her number. I waited a day to start texting her and got pretty much ignored after the first few texts. So I chalk her up to a flake and delete her number. A few days later I get another text from her out of the blue saying Hi! I sent her one message asking her what she was up to... and again I was ignored for several hours. So I wait until night time and text her again asking what she was up to. She actually responds to this one and tells me she's watching The Big Bang Theory on TV. I ask her which episode... and she goes silent again.

Please tell me I am not the only one with this problem. This chick is acting weird as hell and I really don't know how to handle this one.
Easily you could have told her: "OMG sheldon is so crazy, and Leonard annoys the hell out of me with his insecurity" boom!

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