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Author:  Wtf12345 [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 3:28 pm ]
Post subject:  Help....girl with BF situation
Ok. So, I'm on holiday visiting my friend. She is super hot brunette, tall, long hair etc. Problem is we may already be at the LJBF stage because of her loser BF that she has. However, last night she let me touch her tit (implants), because I had never felt fake tits. She is pretty flirty and gives me good eye contact. I asked her to stay over at the hotel I'm at, but she kind of said no in a typical chick fashion. I know she would fuck me if I played my cards right, but I recently got over a severe bought of depression that lasted one year, and thus am out of the game.

I only want advice on how I can escalate once I get her to my room, without fear of fucking this trip up. I don't need people to tell me I am wrong, as I know this a bloody gray area. She was in my room last night until 2 am, but I was too chicken to get her on my bed. She was sitting on the chair next to my bed. She has been giving me the "I wanna fuck you eyes" this whole trip though...please help!!
Author:  nikzki [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 4:13 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
You should kiss her first, after that, while undressing her you whisper "this is so wrong", make sure she doesn't feel as slut!

I used this line once "In the end we regret more things we didn't do, than the things we did.", tell her she is one of the the things you don't want to regret.
Author:  Wtf12345 [ Mon Jan 27, 2014 5:10 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
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You should kiss her first, after that, while undressing her you whisper "this is so wrong", make sure she doesn't feel as slut!

I used this line once "In the end we regret more things we didn't do, than the things we did.", tell her she is one of the the things you don't want to regret.
Ok. So once she comes in to the hotel room, just invite her over to my bed and start cuddling and kissing, then go to town? She brings up her "BF" alot. LOL
Author:  Magic90210 [ Tue Jan 28, 2014 2:31 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
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I know she would fuck me if I played my cards right, but I recently got over a severe bought of depression that lasted one year, and thus am out of the game.
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I have been there before. I am not in the best situation right now either. I am working on making a lifestyle change. Don't be so depressed; sarging in the cure for everything! After this dilemma your in and when you get back to your city you should go out and sarge dude. "Your never really out of the game"! I recently made the decision to get back into the game and my first day I picked up 3 numbers. My numbers are low compared to other PUAs but I am relearning the game! This Saturday I approached over 30 sets that contained a total close to 20 women. I got 9 hugs, 1 kiss and 2 girls that were just dying over me despite I didn't close them properly. 1 was really giving me "the dog bowl eyes look" but I failed to close her properly because my current roommate was getting aggressive and wanting to fight people :oops: and I had a few too many drinks to pull off my routines properly. :oops:

Despite I had no number closes this weekend I still had a good time. I will prepare this week by reading some chapters of some PUA books and practice doing my routines to a wall and to a friend so that they sound more natural. This weekend I will mostly stick with soda water and a lime and focus my efforts sarging.

Sorry this is long dude. I wish you the best of luck; however it is mostly a matter of skill and very little luck is involved.
Just think of it this way...she already asked you to touch her boobs. You need to get her to sit on your bed first and talk her into laying down and cuddling and do some push-pull until it escalates.
And most of all when you get home "Go out Sarging" and if you have "Oneitis" get rid of it by sarging.

8) :P Good luck man! I believe in you!
Author:  mixology [ Tue Jan 28, 2014 3:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
I would touch her naturally, as in don't force it but be playful and see how she responds to just a regular touch that doesn't look out of place.

if she touches you back, you're good. keep escalating gradually, push and pull.

just be playful with her, what are you guys doing in the room. I know I could always go for a massage, if thats too over the top for you then I've teased a girl after she told me she works out at gym, felt her biceps and told her she's a weakling. she wanted to wrestle me and then it was on.

it has to be natural, if your playing video games then you mess with her controller, touch her...yada yada...

make it gradual, compliance ladder, that way you won't get rejected and it won't seem to overt
Author:  Wtf12345 [ Tue Jan 28, 2014 6:41 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
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I would touch her naturally, as in don't force it but be playful and see how she responds to just a regular touch that doesn't look out of place.

if she touches you back, you're good. keep escalating gradually, push and pull.

just be playful with her, what are you guys doing in the room. I know I could always go for a massage, if thats too over the top for you then I've teased a girl after she told me she works out at gym, felt her biceps and told her she's a weakling. she wanted to wrestle me and then it was on.

it has to be natural, if your playing video games then you mess with her controller, touch her...yada yada...

make it gradual, compliance ladder, that way you won't get rejected and it won't seem to overt
Yeah. I have one more night here. We went out to get drinks and then she dropped me off right away with hardly any chance of me inviting her back to the room. As soon as she gets to my room she is discussing plans with me on where we would like to go and how quick she can get out of the room it seems. I normally don't have issues too bad with PUA, but this is tough because she is not allowing me much opportunity. We are going out drinking tomorrow again. How can I get her into my room once we leave the bar, as she drops me off? I want her so bad!! LOL
Author:  nikzki [ Wed Jan 29, 2014 10:37 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
You haven't nailed her yet? Well I think you're wasting time! Just go for it, and be sincere! no games no shit!
Author:  mixology [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 3:52 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
To answer your question, is there anyway you could drive, so that she could drink more? or you don't have your car on holiday? I would try to take her local, you guys both drink a lot, and then invite her back to your place (you may have to come up with a valid reason for her to come inside, i.e. a movie you guys were talking about, something she might be interested in etc. You should be able to find something out when talking to her, you're the only one who would know).

However, if you're both drinking and real playful at the bar you probably don't need an excuse to take her back to your place. Just try to have a great night, be sexual, playful, just have a good time and it will probably happen, rather than worrying about it too much.

That's my 2 cents.
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 4:04 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
Okay gents....if she is in your room, her intent IS to fuck you. Just lead her to the bed.
Author:  Wtf12345 [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 4:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
Ahh...I fucked this up. I ended up getting her back to my room, cuddling, and rubbing her all over. Then I got the worst LMR I have ever experienced. She said "I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND", and "WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX", while physically moving my entire face away from hers.

I got nervous about the seriousness of herreaction. I guess my mindset showed in my game and I fucked this one up. Oh well. She'll want me once she splits up with her man :mrgreen: . In the mean time, I'll sarge on. Thanks for the advices mates. :mrgreen:
Author:  Heywood Jablowme [ Thu Jan 30, 2014 2:52 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
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"WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX"
This means "YOU ARE HAVING SEX".

The proper answer would have been; 'Your right, this is wrong, and kind of naughty of us!' and keep caressing, back off, re-start, go further, STOP, back off, re-start.
Author:  Wtf12345 [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 1:42 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
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"WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX"
This means "YOU ARE HAVING SEX".

The proper answer would have been; 'Your right, this is wrong, and kind of naughty of us!' and keep caressing, back off, re-start, go further, STOP, back off, re-start.
I know. I was too much of a AFC to proceed. I am gonna be able to pull it off next time. Just gotta learn from this one.
Author:  nikzki [ Fri Jan 31, 2014 12:11 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
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Ahh...I fucked this up. I ended up getting her back to my room, cuddling, and rubbing her all over. Then I got the worst LMR I have ever experienced. She said "I AM IN LOVE WITH MY BOYFRIEND", and "WE ARE NOT HAVING SEX", while physically moving my entire face away from hers.

I got nervous about the seriousness of herreaction. I guess my mindset showed in my game and I fucked this one up. Oh well. She'll want me once she splits up with her man :mrgreen: . In the mean time, I'll sarge on. Thanks for the advices mates. :mrgreen:
Bad bad bad, you had your chances and you blew it! Push-pull always works on these situations.
Author:  Wtf12345 [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 2:51 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
I agree. Freeze outs are perfect for these types of situations. I just got over a severe battle with depression, so it was tough for me to game hard like before. Gotta keep learning and trying to push my limits.
Author:  Magic90210 [ Sat Feb 01, 2014 11:31 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Help....girl with BF situation
Good job! Sorry to hear you didn't seal the deal but atleast you know what to do for next time. And besides that there are many beautiful women out there you just have to go find them. Go sarge when you get home.

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