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| Author: | Tyler13 [ Mon Dec 02, 2013 10:51 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Having trouble escalating to sex on day 2's |
I feel super awkward escalating. I just don't feel natural at all when I'm touching her. Helps hints? Basically I try and use a basic kino ladder, you know hands shoulders, back, but then when I get to the sex regions ie legs thighs, face, kissing, hand over shoulder it gets awkward for me. Like I don't feel right. An I feel it shows in my body language. tips please. |
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| Author: | Spacevolt [ Mon Dec 02, 2013 11:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having trouble escalating to sex on day 2's |
don't put to much tought into you movements. that is what makes it awkward. simple just go for micro scalation.. richard laruina has a great video for this simply search richard la ruina stealth attraction. it teaches you how to move nonverbal and escalate sexually and smoothly. |
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| Author: | JackOfNoTrades [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 3:43 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Having trouble escalating to sex on day 2's |
Yeah I second that. Gambler is my outergame go to. Plus it is going to feel weird at first because it's a new area for you (cold approach pick up, I'm assuming). However keep pushing until you get a real no as in a "What the fuck are you doing" no not a "stop, people might see" no. A great piece of advice I read and utilise in my game is the reverse kino (could be gambler again I'm not sure). Before you kino her, get her to kino you by putting her hand wherever you're going to kino. It does a few things. 1. Shows you can lead, have confidence with getting women to touch you. 2. You will show you are a tactile person and want to be touched. 3. Move her from a spectator to a participant in the pick-up. 4. (Most importantly) as you are putting her hand on your body you are taking the responsibility i.e. She's touching you because you made her, not because she wanted to (but everyone knows that she did). It helps me as it not only creates a bit of attraction but it opens up knew threads of convo, makes the pick-up more fun AND increases sexual tension. As for kinoing her/escalation ladder, keep going. If she lets you, it's all good!!! Remember women want it as much, if not more than guys; Plus, you deserve it!! - Jack |
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