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| Author: | Violinist [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 2:24 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Need Help! HB 8.5 loses interest |
Well guys first of all I am new in this forum. I have been reading the game by styles and half of mystery's method book. I have never asked something before at the forum, however I have been reading a lot of your stuff (you guys are amazing). Well here is my issue: There is this hb 8.5 at my squash club. After somedays of negging her and good chat, she started sending me IOI's like touching her hair or looking for having a conversation with me. She was that into me that all the time she repeated sentences like THAT IS SO COOL or Wow!... So one day I asked her phone number and she basically answered: Yes you should take it! You should! So the next day at around 4pm I called her. She didn't pick up so I texted her about going out that night. She answered like 4 hours later that she was preparing some exams and it was impossible for her to meet before tuesday but that she wanted to. I called her on Tuesday, again she didnt reply and I texted her. Again she answered the message at late night telling me that she had some activities the day I proposed for the date so that she wasnt able but again she said that she wanted to and that she was sorry. I played her game and didn't reply in 2 days. By this time she sent me another message asking me if she could tell me when she had free time. I answered "Yes" and since then she hasn't replied in 2 days. Now I realize that I acted needy at first and that maybe she has lost all her attraction towards me. However I would like to know if there is a solution for this situation since I still have a lot of influence in her social group and I get along pretty well with her friends. HELP PUAs! |
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| Author: | oceanx [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 10:55 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need Help! HB 8.5 loses interest |
A girl generally won't take the initiative to lead with "I'm free Fri, let's do something." Life is fluid, people coming and going, and she may have 5 new offers from other guys at that time. Best to nail something down with her in a non-needy way. Like late next week can hit her with 1 more offer "hey I'm going to be at X on Thurs. come..' or whatever. If she keeps avoiding, just move on to the next girl. The more girls you have practice with the better you will become at lining up dates etc. |
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| Author: | Violinist [ Sun Nov 24, 2013 5:50 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need Help! HB 8.5 loses interest |
Thanks! I'll follow your advice |
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| Author: | Conker [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 7:17 am ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need Help! HB 8.5 loses interest |
"I'm not free till after Tuesday" means set up a date to do something after Tuesday. Not wait till Tuesday and then try and set up a date when she has already booked things in for the week. The lack of initiative on your part would make the spark fizzle eventually. |
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| Author: | Violinist [ Thu Nov 28, 2013 11:53 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need Help! HB 8.5 loses interest |
Ok guys so today I was walking down uni and I saw her from far. As I didn't want to create an ackward situation stopping her (I thought she didn't want to talk to me) I walked looking to the other side of the road. However, she stopped me and said her-Hey "my name"! How are you?(full smile on her face) me-oh hi! her- I am on a rush right now but I'll see you at squash? me- Yeah sure! I have lectures too so see you later WTF is going on here? please i need an answer because I have squash in two days thnks guys |
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| Author: | Violinist [ Wed Dec 04, 2013 3:08 pm ] |
| Post subject: | Re: Need Help! HB 8.5 loses interest |
I ended up with a solution last week and I applied it. After one week without texting her and creating more confidence I asked her for drinks again. We dated last night and it was great . In addition we already setted the second date. Thnks for the help oceanx and Conker posting.php?mode=reply&f=53&t=172035# |
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