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Author:  nekrogovner [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 11:43 am ]
Post subject:  Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

I went out with this chick and was quite beta chode afc at the times. No kino too, no kiss close. So i try to set up a second date and here is response I get via text:
"You are great and coffee would be cool, but exclusively on a friendly base, because you are not my type regardless of qualities you have. Here, just so there is no mistake... :P
I hope you don't resent me, but I think bit of honesty is okay."

I know she is dating multiple guys and I am probably up against some tough competition, but I WANT HER! What's my game here? If there is any...

P.S. And when I say want her I mean...give her orgasms on more then one occasion.

Author:  CharlesFinley [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 2:53 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

She.... seems quite clear on this one.

You need to move on.

Author:  In$tinct [ Thu Nov 21, 2013 9:12 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

Lesson #1 You can't get every woman.

Now move on and game other girls because there's quite a good amount out there who deserves you. This one clearly doesn't want you, so why waste time?

Author:  oceanx [ Fri Nov 22, 2013 1:54 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

Lesson #2: At the very least, go kino and kiss close on date 1.

I agree with the earlier responses, move on to other girls.

Author:  robke136 [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 5:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

I have been in this situation before a few times. The best thing you can do is indeed move on. But if you're like me, and being told a 'no' just makes you want her even harder, there's one last shot you have.
Since she wants to see you as a friend, you can agree to meet up with her, but be sure (logistics are a very nontrivial challenge here, and make sure it is subtle!) to meet a super hot other girl you're having sex with. The jealousy plotlines can completely turn them around.

Be warned: You can lose both if you play this one badly. But whenever I do this play, I feel very alpha, and this makes me act super alpha as well.

Author:  Return [ Fri Nov 29, 2013 1:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

The worst thing you could do is "fight for her" as you will just be a source of negative attention (given that she dates others). Quite frankly, it may snowball into her telling her friends you are chasing her. Not good. I kind of know your situation. Had a D1 with a chick a while ago and it just didn't really work out on a personal level. I have just moved on and focused my attention on other chicks. The source of all evil is oneitis.

Author:  TheFury [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 5:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Need a response for SMS (getting friendzoned after D1)

Quote:
I went out with this chick and was quite beta chode afc at the times. No kino too, no kiss close. So i try to set up a second date and here is response I get via text:
"You are great and coffee would be cool, but exclusively on a friendly base, because you are not my type regardless of qualities you have. Here, just so there is no mistake... :P
I hope you don't resent me, but I think bit of honesty is okay."

I know she is dating multiple guys and I am probably up against some tough competition, but I WANT HER! What's my game here? If there is any...

P.S. And when I say want her I mean...give her orgasms on more then one occasion.
You got rejected. This is a very very clear obvious rejection.

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