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Author:  SomeNickname3 [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:06 pm ]
Post subject:  Great first date - no response to kino

So I went out with this HB10. She broke up with her boyfriend about 4 months ago. They went out for 2.5 years. He was/is a successful business consultant - so they shared a nice apartment and I believe a somewhat nice live style. But he dominated her too much and tried to change her. At least that's what she said. That's why she broke up. He than chased her badly.

Summary of the date:
- Went out for dinner
- We were both late (about 10 Min.)
- Dinner lasted for about 2 hours
- We had a good amount of things in common
- I made her laugh a lot an really enjoyed each others company
- No awkward silences - she really put in effort
- We both contributed to the conversations. I'd say (me) 40/60 (her)
- Some relationship talk about our ex's
- Weird: We came to talk about money (bad - I know) and she actually asked me what I make (wtf?)
- Couldn't think of a good/funny way to respond so I actually told her (I know I shouldn't have)
- I make plenty (and more than her) so the amount shouldn't have been a problem but I feel like I still shouldn't have
answered this specific question
- No kino as I felt like there was a good opportunity (I thought about palm reading but then didn't)
- We split the bill (her suggestion and I let her)
- I told her I was thinking about going to the office
afterwards because I still had some work to do - which I did
- She said "...or instead we could go to the movies" - hinting at a movie (a comedy) she really wanted to see
- So we went to movies
- Did some kino on the way walking there
- Did some kino while watching the movie

Positives:
- During dinner she invited me to an event she is going to in a few days
- On our way to the movies she said she wants to believe in faith and that it might
not have been a coincident that she didn't get the job in this other city she applied for
a few weeks ago - we wouldn't have met then

Negatives:
- No response to kino'ing from her side
- Just a hug @ goodbye
- She didn't ask for another meetup/date @ goodbye
- but she already invited me to another event
during dinner

I haven't contacted her again and I'm going to wait until she does.

How bad is it if a girl doesn't respond to kino? I did get the feeling
she was really into me and when she talked about faith I really thought
I was in for at least a k-close - but nothing. Any girls out there
that genuinely want to take it slow?^^ She is used to guys hitting on her
all the time of course and her really dominant ex probably made her
cautious. That's a got :/

Author:  Dragula [ Mon Nov 18, 2013 4:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Great first date - no response to kino

Stop trying to make her initiate kino, texting, bla bla

This gamey power crap is gonna fuck it up for you.

Just tell her you would like to see her again and arrange something to do together.

Obviously next time choose something that might involve some kino.

Well, fuck kino, just make a move on her before she gets bored. Please don't wait for her to make the move.

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