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Author:  Lyre [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 5:32 am ]
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Friend of mine hb7 has been FB chatting with me recently about how she has no one to hookup with and needs sex. Never considered it before but think "why not". Talked to her about girl stuff before. She asks what goals I have for the future with girls. Do I reply that I straight up just want hookups and sex? Thinking something like "a few FWB relationships". Or do I play it like I want something meaningful?
Author:  msa173 [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 6:56 pm ]
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Hey Lyre I think it's awesome you have female friends. My mentor who focuses completly on social circle game does this. He will actually tell the girl all the nasty stuff he does with other girls to the friend. Eventually the friend is asking why not me. Than ur in the drivers chair.

Now to your situation you really have to ask yourself what do you want. Do you want a relationship? Do you want a hookup? Than be honest with her about what your looking for. After you sleep with her first.
Author:  samreedy [ Sat Nov 23, 2013 9:58 pm ]
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I tend to answer with 'well lets see where it takes us'
Author:  Conker [ Mon Nov 25, 2013 7:42 am ]
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If she already said she just needs sex, she's now just trying to find a way to trust you. You shouldn't say what you think she wants you to hear, she will feel it and feel unsafe.

It's ok for a girl to just want sex, but the nature of the situation is that she has to be careful, and there's no other way to determine that than just to ask questions and see HOW he responds.

You should just be calm and collected and answer normally. You probably have the same needs as everyone else. Love meeting people, getting to know them - the goal is to get married one day of course, hahah. But to have fun on the way.
Author:  lovegun1 [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:30 am ]
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That happened to me at a pub once, but she was obnoxious as hell, and I just didn't care anymore. So I said "Well, I came here to have a drink, meet some people and maybe get some stinky pinky."
Author:  GamesSN [ Tue Dec 03, 2013 4:38 am ]
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Just be aloof about it. "I don't really mind what I get out of it. I'll take it day by day."
Author:  maxtazm [ Fri Dec 06, 2013 7:28 am ]
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she wants the truth so just give it to her. i always tell them every position i am fantasizing about them in and then we act out that fantasy.
Author:  Digital_Spy [ Sat Dec 07, 2013 12:23 am ]
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Here's something random. How about being honest with her instead of thinking up some utter BS that she'll see right through. If you want a fuck buddy then say so. If you want something more meaningful then tell her. Playing pathetic mind games gets you fucking nowhere. If you can't be genuine and say what you'd really like then how the fuck do you expect a relationship to START nevermind last? Your own childish mind games are turning you into someone you're not you fucking morons. What are you going to do? Fake a whole fucking relationship? Christ you're all so fucking STOOOOOOOPID.
Author:  BrandonMarshall [ Sun Dec 08, 2013 4:10 am ]
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Tell her you just want to enjoy the moment with her and see where it takes you... or pure honesty. Dont lie to her though.
Author:  _Lothario_ [ Sun Dec 08, 2013 7:14 am ]
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I think you really need to ask YOURSELF this question and figure out what the answer REALLY is before you answer someone else. If you don't know...tell them you don't know.

Wherever you are at with this question, be there, and answer accordingly.
Author:  LayWind [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 10:47 am ]
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I'm normally straight up. It saves time that would have otherwise been wasted going after something different than what you want.
Quote:
Yes I want to use you for sex... Yes it will be the best night of your life.
it also lets her know what to expect if she stays. It gets rid of the whole you only like me fore sex argument.
Author:  johnnie5 [ Sun Jan 05, 2014 11:57 am ]
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Quote:
I'm normally straight up. It saves time that would have otherwise been wasted going after something different than what you want.
Quote:
Yes I want to use you for sex... Yes it will be the best night of your life.
it also lets her know what to expect if she stays. It gets rid of the whole you only like me fore sex argument.

haha remonds me of the married chick that comes to visit , she often says to me you just want a girl to come round , to fuck and then go

i respond yep thats right now GTFO , thanks for coming cya again soon :D

nothing is stopping you from being honest and if that doesnt work then so be it , if it does then its great
and there is nothing you need to work for or hide
Author:  osyn [ Tue Jan 07, 2014 12:15 pm ]
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She's being real with you. Be real with her. She wants an honest answer. Don't fudge the truth, or it WILL come to bite you in the butt. Just tell her that you're not looking for a relationship right now, and that you want to get laid. No harm in being honest.
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