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Author:  TRMascot [ Sat Nov 09, 2013 8:49 pm ]
Post subject:  before 3rd date/help translating response? its a toughie
So not going to bore you:HB10, texting over a few weeks, last date museum and hipster restaurant.

Me: I love gorilla, blah blah x
Her: And I LOVE it too :) blah blah x

For the life of me can't figure it out? Few texts after she abruptly stops convoy, she does this a lot. I pick up again usually a few days after. Said I'd call her again (moved to calls as well) but I haven't, so going to call on Sunday evening. I just don't get the emphasis? Is she trying to show she is game too? Is she just trying to lead a brother on, she has brought up porn before and mixed responses to innuendos.
Author:  TRMascot [ Mon Nov 11, 2013 11:21 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: before 3rd date/help translating response? its a toughie
Seriously guys I can't figure it out. Is it normal to sway between interested and uninterested?

She caught me scrnshotting her snapchat anyway haha
Author:  jamesd31 [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 9:32 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: before 3rd date/help translating response? its a toughie
If she is hot, she probably is shit testing you and remember, just like YOU SHOULD BE TALKING TO A NUMBER OF GIRLS, they are probably talking to a number of guys. So, stop worrying about her, you talk here and there, congrats.

If she isn't starting conversations, then she is either busy or just not thinking about you; aka you need to put yourself in her mind even more - build more attraction.

If she stops convos, that is probably because she is busy, or you just bored her. Either, or, hard to tell. Are you building attraction via text or are you just having a rant about random shit like an interview for hours?
Author:  TRMascot [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 10:18 am ]
Post subject:  Re: before 3rd date/help translating response? its a toughie
Yeah I text every other day, she'll take hours to reply the usual bullshit HB10s pull so flakey "I'm just dead busy"

Should I just wait until she starts a conversation? I am building momentum, I have a few talking each week normally aim for three. Anymore and I find it hard to keep track if likes/dislikes etc. Dropping a few innuendos to tease but shell try and discuss other guys and I reply with ''and you're telling me because...?''

Just gutted I've invested so much time haha any suggestions as to my approach? Is waiting a day or two to long? I am trying to focus on mystery in starting texts.
Author:  jamesd31 [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 5:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: before 3rd date/help translating response? its a toughie
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Yeah I text every other day, she'll take hours to reply the usual bullshit HB10s pull so flakey "I'm just dead busy"

Should I just wait until she starts a conversation? I am building momentum, I have a few talking each week normally aim for three. Anymore and I find it hard to keep track if likes/dislikes etc. Dropping a few innuendos to tease but shell try and discuss other guys and I reply with ''and you're telling me because...?''

Just gutted I've invested so much time haha any suggestions as to my approach? Is waiting a day or two to long? I am trying to focus on mystery in starting texts.
Um... friendzone her for a while. Start calling her a "friend." Say something like "this girl is getting too clingy, come get her off me; that's what good friends do right?"

This will DHV you and make her wondering why you just friendzoned her. With friendzone, treat her like your guy friend; so don't come crawling to her every need when she wants it.

At least you are talking to other women so it is easier to move on from this. Some girls truly are busy, but I noticed that long periods of time with text game just never works out; hang out with her more if you want to build that attraction stage again, as texting just is so hard to do that or even maintain it well.
Author:  TRMascot [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 8:33 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: before 3rd date/help translating response? its a toughie
Okay call her 'a s*it friend' playfully, I won't over use it though, focus on DHV - gottit :)

She never wants to meet as she is alllwaaays busy, but she does have to get a train for 45 minutes so I think I'm doing okay to meet her twice specifically coming to my city.

I mentioned going to see a film with her but I'm taking someone else...can I use this? Can I say I know we were going to see 'XXX' but this girl wants to go, do you mind if I take her instead?

Same with a concert, can I suggest rearranging for something else because this girl wants to go?

Thanks bro, appreciate your advice!!
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