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Author:  invertednz [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 4:28 am ]
Post subject:  She's mad how to get her out for a day 3

Had been away overseas and hadn't heard back from this one girl for a while, heard about the below line and tried it out. Not sure what I should reply with now. We've been out a couple of times usually all good. I had invited her to a concert previously.


Thursday
Me
Us not talking for 2 weeks is playing waaaayyyy beyond hard to get, you're going to drive me into the arms of several other women at this rate!


Friday
Her
5am
Oh? Several other women? Hahaha okay, go ahead. And no I can try go to the concert by myself.


Sunday
Her
4:04am
^That was my drunk response. I know it's not very nice, but what you said was way beyond rude. That's all I have to say about that.



It's been a couple of days, I've been busy. Trying to work out what to say. Was going to say 'I would be surprised if I got a sober text from you :P' then something about the concert and her not replying to my original message but that makes it look like I was worried...

Thoughts, thanks!

Author:  invertednz [ Mon Nov 04, 2013 8:09 am ]
Post subject:  Re: She's mad how to get her out for a day 3

I totally blew it, haha

Me:
Hahaha, I never expect to get a sober message from you! Was teasing (:
I guess that was our first fight will have to make up now

Her:
Ha. I don't think I'll have time to see you to 'make up'.

Author:  HSP [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:26 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's mad how to get her out for a day 3

I'm assuming you havn't know this girl for too long. If that's true you can not talk to her like that, you can only say jokes like that to women you've known for awhile or have enough comfort with you to realize you were kidding. She said it herself that you came off as rude and then after that you even sent her another message basically saying she is a drunk and that i want to say sorry. You need to understand what a basic message is saying before you start sending messages with PUA material that is used for certain situations. Lastly NEGs are a lot more useful in person, where someone can see your expressions to understand you are kidding.

Author:  jamesd31 [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:37 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's mad how to get her out for a day 3

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I'm assuming you havn't know this girl for too long. If that's true you can not talk to her like that, you can only say jokes like that to women you've known for awhile or have enough comfort with you to realize you were kidding. She said it herself that you came off as rude and then after that you even sent her another message basically saying she is a drunk and that i want to say sorry. You need to understand what a basic message is saying before you start sending messages with PUA material that is used for certain situations. Lastly NEGs are a lot more useful in person, where someone can see your expressions to understand you are kidding.
False, you should read half the shit I just sent to this HOTTTT HB10 31 year old (now my sugar momma, I am only 22) after seeing showings (she's a realtor, I was looking for an apartment) for two hours. As long as you know how to calibrate for the type of women they are, you can say pretty much anything.

IF YOU SAY SOMETHING THEY DISAPPROVE OF, use the following line:

"Wow, I am really super sorry. I was just fucking joking. I didn't know you would take it like that."

^ Done, move on, don't fuck up again.

Why did you not respond to her one text sooner and let it ride for two days? You mention not seeing her, and then you don't have the balls to keep up the conversation and go see her? This was part all your fault - of course she loses the attraction after not seeing a guy who she probably barely knows for 2 weeks.

What guys don't get is that when they number close, they want to do the 2-3 day thing, which is fucking stupid. You want her to imagine how AMAZING LIFE IS WITH YOU. Like you did the first time you met them and built that attraction. How can she do that if she doesn't talk / hang with you, and at which case she will realize she can LIVE LIFE WITHOUT YOU AND BE FINE WITH IT??

Author:  HSP [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:51 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's mad how to get her out for a day 3

Quote:

"Wow, I am really super sorry. I was just fucking joking. I didn't know you would take it like that."
That line will not always work. There are woman out there that can still get mad at you for saying certain things no matter what you say after it. Even though i agree you need to check on what type of woman you are talking too, I feel that in his situation your line would not have saved him.

Author:  jamesd31 [ Wed Nov 13, 2013 5:38 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: She's mad how to get her out for a day 3

Quote:
Quote:

"Wow, I am really super sorry. I was just fucking joking. I didn't know you would take it like that."
That line will not always work. There are woman out there that can still get mad at you for saying certain things no matter what you say after it. Even though i agree you need to check on what type of woman you are talking too, I feel that in his situation your line would not have saved him.
It depends upon how fucked up the thing he said is. If he said shit like he wants to shit in poor african orphan's mouths while they die of AIDs, then yes. That line probably would not save him.

Though, for 99.9% of the shit you should be saying to women that is pushing the lines. You can save yourself just by being fucking sincere and apologizing to them.

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