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Author:  johndenver [ Thu Oct 31, 2013 3:35 pm ]
Post subject:  Hooked up with crush.. did I blow it with a few needy texts?
I hooked up with this girl that I hadn't seen in years. It went great. In person I was crushing it. She told me she was going out of town but she really wanted to hook up again when she was back - not date, mind you, just have sex. great.

She is a low-key texter, definitely knows what she's doing, usually only texting a word or two at a time, usually not responding for a while, but once I asked her out to a show and she said "I won't be back in town yet, but you should ask my friend Jen, she'll probably fuck you."

I had no idea what to say to that. I couldn't figure out her angle, whether she was fucking with me or testing me or what. I just didn't text her back for about a week. When I did start texting her back, she wasn't texting me back. So i waited a day and texted again, just some fun stuff about what i was doing. I sent a bunch of texts, sort of just narrating the surroundings of where i was. I thought it was fun. When she didn't text back again I said "you used to be a fun txt budy. disappointing."

I thought it would be fun and high-status but i didn't realize that i really sounded desperate. She did respond to that - in a half-defensive way. we texted like 2 more times that day, her not saying much. I decided I wouldn't contact her again for a while. It's been over 2 weeks. She hasn't contacted me. Did I ruin this one? Or is there a chance to revive it? How do I get things back in my court?
Author:  jamesd31 [ Tue Nov 12, 2013 10:42 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Hooked up with crush.. did I blow it with a few needy te
Sadly yes. You should of got the hint the first time.

Honestly, the "fuck my friend Jen" thing was probably a shit test - but who cares?

I would of said "hopefully she is better than you were ;), I will write up the judge cards today and compare."

She was probably seeing how much of a pussy you were about it, and you could of had two girls, and then probably a 3some down the road. Secondly, you kept sending random fucking texts - how would that spike a girls' interest?

Thirdly, you also put yourself down and showed that HER NOT TEXTING YOU, was a problem. NEVER, EVER EVER, for future texts show that her not texting you was a problem. Never start a conversation about how you haven't talked in ever, etc. It just DLV's you.
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