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Author:  Roland [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 12:19 pm ]
Post subject:  Need advice!
Hi guys,

Been lurking on this forum for a while now and I've read some great posts.
I haven't yet introduced myself so here it is:
Donnie, age 21, been reading a lot about the game. Started practicing a few
months ago and so for it's worked out pretty well for me.
Especially last weekend. I gamed a HB10 with success. Now, normally I only go for HB7's to practice, and this was really the first time in my entire life I K-closed a HB10!
I even developed my own routine while gaming, which worked absolutely amazing. I got the K-close out of that one.
But now here's the problem. We agreed to meet up so I got her number,
sent her a text yesterday and still haven't gotten any reply.
What would you guys do? I don't want to call her and sound needy, but I don't want to wait around either. She's so hot I don't want to fuck this up!

Hope you can all give me some good advice!
Author:  JSmooth [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 1:21 pm ]
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Give it a few to respond then call her with the intention of getting her out. Keep the conversation short and to the point.

By the way, Welcome to the forum!
Author:  Roland [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 2:47 pm ]
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Thanks for the welcome!
I'll wait for her text, hoping she'll send something tonight!
I'll keep you updated!
Author:  Shreder [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 6:53 pm ]
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Next time you # close, send her a text RIGHT AFTER you get it that says "Who is that hott guy you are standing next to?" that way she'll know it's you the next time you call...I would say CALL her if she doesn't respond soon like tomorrow...don't call her out just say I'm planning on going to Xplace on Xday...you are welcome to come. Day 2 -> C2-C3 ->S Phase = Success! Congrats on getting the K close man! It's a great feeling isn't it?!? Good luck sir!
Author:  Roland [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:19 pm ]
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Hey thanks man, that's some really good advice about the direct text!
I'll have to translate into something that sounds good, since I'm Dutch.
Still haven't heard from her...I think I'm gonna have to call her.
BUT, she also gave me her email. Maybe I should just add her on msn first?
Or would that be too cautious?
And about that K-close, it really was a great feeling :D She really was the hottest B present, got the bartenders over there standing like...WTF?:shock:
Hoping to do that again sometime soon :D
Author:  Bronco [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:29 pm ]
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i like that immediate text line..good trick for the future
Author:  Roland [ Mon Feb 18, 2008 10:53 pm ]
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Yeah def gonna try that one.
Nice sig btw! Gotta love the Boss.
Author:  Roland [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 10:51 pm ]
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Crap man...Still no response. Haven't called her yet, want to avoid sounding needy! Still, last saturday we agreed to meet up within 2 weeks...I'm almost certain she wasn't drunk or even tipsy! I did add her to my MSN by the way, just now. If she doesn't accept it within a day or two, I'm gonna have to call her. Otherwise it's a lost cause. Any more advice?
She was hot dammit.
Author:  The Flip [ Tue Feb 19, 2008 11:45 pm ]
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I always prefer to call first instead of leaving a text message. The thing with text messaging is that she can choose not to reply, and if you haven't built enough attraction, there is a high risk that she won't. If you absolutely have to text her, then say something that MAKES HER WANT TO REPLY.
Example: "I just saw something that reminded me of you" or maybe type in a little neg so you don't look to cheesy.

If she accepts your invite on MSN don't use one of those "Hey, whats up?" openers. If she didn’t respond to your text message it's a good chance you haven't built enough attraction with her. Therefore you should make yourself look like the price again. Now your the one chasing her, not the other way around, and that has to change. I would maybe type something random to her, and say "Opps. Wrong person." (A girl did that to me once on MSN, and my self-esteem pretty much drowned.) From there you can say: " But what's up anyways?". Now it's OK to use that as an opener because now you have lowered her self-esteem, and hopefully also disarmed her BS. Continue the convo from there and her ask her out on a date!

Good luck man. :)
Author:  Bronco [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 12:38 am ]
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If she doesn't hit me back by this time next week, I'm going to use the idea above and send a text to her saying "Hey man, legs/cardio before work tomorrow 5am right?"

DHV- fitness, LHV- wrong number, possible open if she texts back.

If not, I'm giving up
Author:  Roland [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 1:02 pm ]
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Man should I have read some more posts before texting her!
My text last week was a little too AFC I guess...It was more fluff talk.
Like you said Flip, I should either have called her or I should have texted her something better.
I'm hoping to catch her on MSN tonight or tomorrow.
The 'oops wrong person' technique isn't really for me, since it almost never happens that you open on the wrong person on MSN.
But you are right about the standard openers. I shouldn't start with 'hey whatsup'. Maybe I could give her some comment about not texting back...or maybe that's too AFC.

@ Bronco:
I tried that technique about the wrong number 1 time...it came off more DLV than DHV...don't know if that's the best. But I could be wrong ofcourse.

Just one more question, when I don't catch her on MSN and I do call her, do I say something about not texting me back or not?
Author:  tweeby [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 7:47 pm ]
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>do I say something about not texting me back or not?

No.

Why? Because you're NOT bothered about her. And she'll be like, hmm I thought he'd be bothered. Why isn't he bothered?

Let the Cat-String game begin...
Author:  Bronco [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 8:40 pm ]
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Good luck with your girl, I threw ina phone call today, we'll see what happens.

I read a greaat post on here about "accepting rejection" and welcoming it.. it's a great way to look at it

Or like my football coach used to say, when you get hit and the guy is looking at you, smile,it'll confuse the sh1t out of him.
Author:  Bronco [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 9:17 pm ]
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GDonnie-
my target texted back bro. said "hey bronco what's up? sorry i missed your call , i was working and couldn't chat."

how long to write back? i sent my txt 2 days ago, but my phone call maybe waited 2 hours
Author:  Bronco [ Wed Feb 20, 2008 9:43 pm ]
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waited 30 min, texted back "hey - yeah i was tyring to do some phillies bashing with my new favorite nanny, but i had to settle for the dude in accounting, nice work"

what u think
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