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Author:  TheHansMan55 [ Sun Oct 13, 2013 11:40 am ]
Post subject:  Got there numbers - do I call them or text them on day 3

I'm still a newbie, I've read up until page 56 and know I still got a long way to go and a lot to learn, I've used the ESP trick with the numbers trick, and got two numbers from two girls but now my question is what do I do do I call them or text them on day 3 from first meeting and getting there numbers and how would I proceed if I'm looking to score with both of them.

Author:  TheSeagull [ Sun Oct 13, 2013 6:43 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got there numbers - do I call them or text them on day 3

So, you got a couple numbers, that's awesome man! Congrats. No, seriously. It's awesome that you scored your first number-closes as a playa :D

What comes next? Setting up a date, usually.
You text or call (I usually text, but that's just me, I think Style called if you're religiously following "The Game" [1]) and ask them out. Usually, you do it quickly (the attraction you built is still fresh, they remember you, less time for them to rationalize why it's a bad idea to go out with a guy they just met for 10 minutes in some random venue, ...). The more you did a good work the more legroom you have with the timing, but we're talking a couple days anyway if it was a first random meet, digits and ejection.

[1] as I think many of us have at one point or another

With that said, it's your very first time gaming, so pat yourself on the back for scoring digits, and on to bigger and wetter things.

EDIT: When you ask them out, don't make it sound too dateish. That puts pressure on the chicks, and makes them more likely to flake/give excuses/...
What you do, is you ask them out by saying "Hey, I got this amazing thing going on tomorrow/this Saturday/... and it made me think of you. Meet me at X place at Y time, it's gonna be fun!"
Give a good funny vibe to the meetup, make it sound like you have fun, loads of it, and she can either be part of it, or miss out, but you're gonna have fun anyway.

Author:  TheHansMan55 [ Sun Oct 13, 2013 10:56 pm ]
Post subject:  Re: Got there numbers - do I call them or text them on day 3

That's awesome man thank you for the super advice I'd surely use it, and I'd have to agree with u in a way on the texting part I'm no expert in this field, but I was fortunate to attend a Dale Carnegie Course which might have helped somewhat in the situation, coming back to texting its exactly the same as in sales environment u send a signal of acknowledgement to your client, once signal is received back of acknowledgement she would know u there and is present, then I agree with Style's method with the phone call, because with text u don't really get the same emotion connection then through voice, now like I say I'm no expert so I can be corrected if I'm wrong, because u can get them emotionally attracted in such way as well, further more I think I'm going to use them as experimenting with a few more things so that I can add value to this forum as well, but this is how I'd see it picture wise text=brain refresher of where we met, call=deeper emotional connection.

And gotta add though they were promotion girls selling a drink, yet they were more then 30min at our table talking to us, and that was more time spent at our table then being around any other guys around the club, luckily I got them to come to our table to join me and my friends bringing them to our world "where they are they strangers" if I can quote from the YouTube video, and me and one of my friends are both into the game, and as we have seen and helped each other in regards to before they loose interest in our table we would sway the topic to something stupid and see them laugh, and from this I take good experience, next time might not be as lucky, but it's a stepping stone to much better things I'd say.

And once again Much appreciated for the awesome advice, Really appreciate it TheSeaGull....

Author:  Mattr1984 [ Mon Oct 14, 2013 6:11 am ]
Post subject:  Re: Got there numbers - do I call them or text them on day 3

Don't do the "wait a day" thing. Just call/text the next day. Try avoid texting if you can, do it if you must.

Don't get numbers either, get dates.

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